@danielle.melani: No one prepares you for this side of motherhood. The overstimulation. The mental load. The guilt for wanting just five quiet minutes. If you’re in this season too, I hope you know you’re not the only one 🤍 #postpartum #newmum #firstimemum #overstimulatedmum #mumchallenge

Danielle | FTM 🎀
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aasiyahmijoi
aasiyahmijoi :
men will never understand. sometimes I wish the roles could switch so they see what it’s like
2026-08-02 05:30:34
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trippy_brebre33
Bre’ana Marie :
It’s just feels incredibly lonely as well. Stuck in the house all day. Just me and my baby. I can’t go out all the time because I have no money. I’m so overstimulated and hurt.
2026-08-01 18:05:28
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malandrinapaginaoficial
CRISTINA :
Hugs to all moms! We got this! 🫶🫶🫶
2026-08-02 03:48:05
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kamiebugbee
Kamie Bugbee :
ik this feeling.....hang in there mama we will make it our kids deserve it and it's not their fault....that men suck and breakers and drain us and make motherhood less enjoyable. we have to chose us....and our kid's....and stop chasing men who don't give a fuck 💔
2026-08-03 02:26:20
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jul_ros
Julie 💜 :
You made sure baby is fed, has a clean diaper, burped and then set them down in a safe place and walk away for a few minutes. It's okay for them to cry a little if you need a break.
2026-08-01 02:43:15
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deniesje10
deniiesjje :
I feel stuck
2026-08-03 09:32:45
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sydney_graces
Sydney Grace :
I take a shower. Its the only time I actually feel like me again. There are even days when I just sit in the shower and cry it out. And when I get out, I feel like I can breathe. Even a 10 minute shower… it feels like a reset
2026-08-01 04:44:59
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mel07162
Melissa :
You just have to have a bloody good cry, straighten your crown and take one day at a time.
2026-08-03 13:43:29
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meghanrobertson7
meghanrobertson7 :
I was putting my son to bed last night and I just balled. I couldn't hold it in anymore. 😭
2026-08-01 04:10:14
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darsh_eolia
Darsh86 :
Most men Don’t get it…. Sending u a warm hug mama. U got this. 💞💞
2026-08-02 00:18:39
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diazj1893
Diazj18 :
This is why when I come home from work I immediately take over and let her breath
2026-08-01 16:15:48
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user56674332
CiCiB :
And it’s everyday 24/7 while the man just sits there and ignores you
2026-08-03 15:40:33
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justbeingkindy
Kindy :
Hug, momma! We got this 💪
2026-08-03 03:48:02
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unbalanced_libra9
☆UnBaLaNcEd LiBrA☆ :
Hugs honey 💕
2026-08-02 19:56:07
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yamahobbit
Elijah :
Same as “overstimulated” dads. It’s just part of life.
2026-08-03 16:36:23
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ashlyklynn_
ashlyklynn_ :
Walk my son to his room, go to my room. Cry, scream, punch a pillow but I refuse lose control infront of him
2026-08-02 01:50:43
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zeljkaajdin
Zeljka Ajdin :
You are not alon
2026-08-03 09:01:03
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daisyyflower04
🌼 Daisy 🖤 :
got called a piss taking bastard yesterday by the mil in the family group chat, told me i shouldn't of had a baby if i couldn't cope. being the mother i should apparently just get on with it and shut up. all i did was ask her son (baby dad) for afew hours break... shes absolutely broken me.
2026-08-02 20:55:00
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ts80677
TS :
This is so hard.Especially with a toddler who wants entertainment😣
2026-08-02 22:34:34
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iseeyoufool4
ISeeYou! :
We feel overwhelmed when they’re little and miss them when they get older, there is a break for mamas 6-12 yr old, take that all in, because it goes SO fast! However one day you’ll be celebrating her 23 yr old birthday not regretting or maybe not even remembering this moment!!! This is me with my 23 yr old daughter, she calls me bestie now, not mommy, mom or bro! Bestie!! Hang in there honey, you got this💕💕💕👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
2026-08-02 06:16:27
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kochi_dt0617
KocHi🐱_AnM17 :
Yes, we just need to keep going and let everything out. but I never have the time to set up a camera and film myself crying..
2026-08-03 13:01:37
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_nahyah_
_NacaNaya_ :
It might seem silly but I genuinely get a break when I go visit my parents, how my mom makes me feel like me again, even tho I have my little one 24/8 by my side, it’s just a breath of relief when I’m back home from my new home ❤️‍🩹
2026-08-03 18:46:28
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larissawilsonn
Laz mum to Dahlia :
You’re doing amazing chicky 💘 these times are moments and not forever xx
2026-07-31 10:13:44
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abby85104
الحمدلله 🌱 :
I hate my husband
2026-08-03 05:08:05
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cristina_ivyy
Cristina :
the hardest part of motherhood. you’re not alone mama! leaving the house with the baby helped me the most. even just going and grabbing coffee or going for a walk!
2026-08-01 06:36:22
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