Teri :
I have to say, my own personal experience social media is what ruined us. Him going to the bars without me, I’m not allowed. His secret calls,text and even emails to one of his X’s over and over. He went back home WERE BOTH OF OUR FAMILYS ARE FROM. I was not asked to go, but yet my grandkids are there in that area. He said he was only going to see his Mom. So since I new he was leaving without me, I new right then I was making a plan to move out of his MILLION DOLLAR HOUSE, he had it all. I lost 5 yrs, my home everything in my home, my car. So he pulls out the driveway and 15 mins later my aunt and cousins pulled up and helped me pack up. I went back where my best friend, kids, grandkids, sister and parents . I even got my old job back, because my bosses and coworkers love me. I stayed in a hotel for a week to get my head on right, I needed a plan before my kids and grandkids knew I was back. Got my job, apartment and a car in the first two weeks. Oh and I am mentally healthy, I am off the depression meds. My dr told me from day one, these meds are needed cuz you are with him. I am 7 mo sober of him. Still to this day he still wants me back, but then he also wants the other one back as well. She moved into the home he bought for US. She lasted two months. I know more than what I say, I hear more than you know. I will never settle, I walked away with nothing and started over. He is 6 hrs away, sometimes I don’t think that is far enough.
2026-08-03 01:25:53