@drjondabach: If this resonates with you, I want you to know something: You're not crazy. You're not asking for too much. Wanting emotional closeness, affection, and genuine partnership isn't unreasonable. Whether your marriage can heal or you ultimately choose a different path, you deserve to understand what's happening and make those decisions from a place of clarity rather than confusion. If you'd like more support, send me a DM with the word "community" and I'll send you the details. #AvoidantAttachment #DismissiveAvoidant #HealthyRelationships