@awakeningsrus: People Pleasers are self victimized narcissists who bend reality to cater to other people’s desires. They avoid rejection, disappointment, and abandonment by calculating comfort zones of hiding within social roles. They try and become the ultimate source of validation for everyone around them and take on the emotional responsibility as a way of being “needed”. They have a desire to be “chosen” and “wanted” in a failed bid to prove themselves as worthy of love and kindness. They are fueled by devaluation and validation and will always internalize the shame of others to maintain fantasies of love or material success and this self abandoning person strategically reduces themselves back into the abandoned child where they find themselves comfortably avoiding all accountability and responsibility as they form victim narratives that are used to seek validation. They also compete for the love of the children since the children are a reflection of them being “good enough”. They use the children after they are discarded as a source of validation where they try and fix the trauma thier incompetence as a guardian has exposed the kids to NPD abuse. For breakthrough coaching, send me a message! [email protected]. #narctok #NarcissisticAbuse #Narcissism #npd #covertnarcissit

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johnmccabe33
John McCabe :
Wouldn’t you consider people pleasing more of a codependent?
2026-09-30 00:51:35
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shae_bae_bae_
Shae_Bae_Bae :
my problem is I dont know where the line is. I go out of my way for people and dont expect anything back. but when it comes to relationships, I give so much of myself and I feel like I need to prove my worth by doing things and holding them down but it never gets reciprocated and then I ask them ehat do I have to do to get better treatment from you? what do I have to do to be taken out on a date or have my birthday celebrated or anniversaries or valentines day. when I people please its never calculated. but when nothing is reciprocated in a romantic relationship with someone who asked me to be theirs it makes me feel like im only as good as the last thing I did for them. and that made them feel like I only loved them if they did things for me but thats just it, even when I knew rhey would never reciprocate I STILL provided for them and gave them what they needed. until I had nothing left to give. not even to myself
2026-07-31 18:19:39
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sofffye
Sophy :
Those people-pleaser-narcissists called themselves empaths and claim they save others, it can be one of their kids, their students, their friends, their aging parent.
2026-08-01 23:30:19
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authentically_sosh
Sósha |🧿 Spiritual Hippie :
The ego is the foundation of mental illness… damn, that’s on point!!!
2026-07-31 16:54:28
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tiktoktip2
800mgtablet :
💯 Yup. Its not authentic its deceptive. Its manipulative.
2026-07-31 16:58:07
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infinitedivinite
Paradox33🐬 :
it's crazy because if they retreat from this behaviour I doubt they would even know how to even exist
2026-08-01 16:18:45
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doudouww0
🇲🇬🇰🇲🇫🇷DoudouwW :
When I finally grasped this: Ah, people have no boundaries and can be abusive, I realized I also have none... I was never told and showed how to protect myself but I learned how to accept abuse😳 so it’s more difficult than you think !
2026-08-16 18:16:39
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jill20233
Jill :
Spot on 🎯💯 thank you for sharing the hidden ego behind self-sacrifice/betrayal 🙏✨ #FYP
2026-07-31 17:11:59
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destiny_vendetta
👑 𝒟𝑒𝓈𝓉𝒾𝓃𝓎 νєη∂єттα ✨ :
Amazing breakdown, from inside the doorway to total awaking. Spot on and so much value to listening from this side. The coaching Nate offers is the way to mental freedom. 💯🙏🏻
2026-09-21 20:07:15
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hell78.or.heaven
hell or love :
this is how you go so wrong. narcissists and those with cptsd not judging the wrong is NOT THE SAME. THEY START WITH THE SAME TRAUMA. cptsd from childhood, abuse etc
2026-08-01 14:05:37
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jackittyjack
JackittyJack :
Amazing insight!
2026-08-01 00:40:20
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jgccjjkk
_phoenix_meant to rise :
😭😭😭😭Damn .I feel called out
2026-08-01 06:42:26
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opsesivnokompulzivno
✨Maruska ⚡🫧🌡️ :
true they do people pleasing to have later validation from people and get angry when they don't... I understood what is in core of that shit and running away from pleasers
2026-07-31 16:52:53
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developmentalpc
developmentalProcess :
Absolutely correct 🎯
2026-08-01 12:01:40
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logos.28
HOX :
Thank you Nate❤️🙏...
2026-07-31 21:45:02
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ewignowis
Daddy :
Damn
2026-08-02 06:51:50
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maureen_v_l
QueenM :
wow thx great explanation 👌
2026-09-04 05:36:32
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shaycarms
Shay Shay :
Spot on!
2026-09-17 01:55:14
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error404ever_
erreur404 :
that’s me💔
2026-09-26 13:02:08
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www.tictok.comdarryl
Darryl :
🥰
2026-08-13 05:03:33
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