@coach.ryan0: They’ll swear they don’t need anyone… while collecting validation from everyone. 👀 For many dismissive avoidants, attention from strangers feels safe because it delivers dopamine without the vulnerability, accountability, consistency, or emotional intimacy that real relationships require. If someone constantly seeks validation outside the relationship while withdrawing from genuine closeness inside it, stop listening to the words and start watching the behavior. Not every dismissive avoidant does this, but when it becomes a pattern, it tells you a lot. #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #relationshipadvice #datingpsychology

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meld0yafterb00b
Meld0yAfterb00b :
I FUCKING KNEW IT
2026-08-02 17:01:06
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foxtrot_uniform_ck
⭐️Saburrito⭐️ :
Probably why my ex is in like 8 bands. Loves being on stage.
2026-08-02 19:38:13
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kika._h
🙈Kika🙈 :
Dating apps🤭
2026-07-31 19:04:09
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gizmoscott
🌹Beautiful_Disaster❤️‍🔥 :
it's an ego validation
2026-07-31 22:44:25
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puremewds
H :
Until you leave them. Then they start chasing your validation after they’ve wronged you.
2026-07-31 23:43:56
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amy6846freddie
Amy6846Freddie :
If a man isn't getting pay, praise or pleasure he doesn't care about it. 😳
2026-08-01 11:05:57
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xmagnacious
Magnacious :
I started noticing early on that the pictures she would send me would be on her Instagram story not too long after 🤔
2026-07-31 20:05:53
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davidewaliko
Dave Ewaliko III :
Nailed it. I wish I could tell this to my ex's mother. Alas, the life lessons cycle again.
2026-08-01 21:43:05
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justvibin12210
Justvibin :
Geez, this IS my ex
2026-07-31 23:30:34
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jetsettingginger
JetsettingGinger :
He also wants to be the center of attention. He told me I have a big personality and he let it be bigger than his. He told me I was too much after 3 years.
2026-08-01 01:42:23
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sime1389
Simeone1 :
Cause they are narcissists!!! The difference is very thin
2026-08-02 13:09:21
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lonersoul97
Lone :
This is so on point
2026-08-01 13:43:18
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candicecuoco7
candi 🌈 :
Absolutely true !!!!
2026-08-02 13:12:04
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denisemoore16
Dee :
Yupp Yupp Yupp
2026-07-31 23:56:36
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erintopia73
erintopia :
So true!!
2026-07-31 23:31:08
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amytkachuk
Amy Tkachuk :
It's funny how they want to be loved so badly, but dont have a clue what love is. They are sick individuals that target people just to hurt them cause they are to cowardly to confront the losers that broke them in the first place!
2026-08-01 03:28:36
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armed2a
Armed 2A Peacemaker :
only from his parents, but also from the military and his ex-wife.. 😢 and yeah, I think it’s true he searches for validation through other people on his Facebook dating app and his other sexual apps.
2026-07-31 23:17:21
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dreamy.mermaid28
Kat :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-08-01 17:11:39
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