Drew Afualo
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Friday 31 July 2026 19:17:40 GMT
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✨Leilani✨ :
I’m a lover AND a leaver.
2026-07-31 20:51:17
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Sav :
Self respect HAS to be higher than your feelings for them.
2026-07-31 21:23:48
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Amanda :
You HAVE to run a tight ship
2026-07-31 20:30:16
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Zoey Hammer :
Also… is it okay to leave after almost four years?
2026-07-31 19:24:07
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_marissa_anna_ :
I dated a guy for three months, the FIRST TIME he yelled at me, I broke up with him. Even my own mother praised me, but to me it was the ONLY option. Rock solid boundaries.
2026-07-31 21:26:51
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Ximena :
You ate w that analogy
2026-07-31 19:42:44
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✨️Ciara's Sacred Space✨️ :
yep. if you are AWARE of the way you're being treated, you must not tolerate being treated the way you don't want to be treated. (in literally ALL scenarios)
2026-07-31 19:25:39
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mschanandlerbonggg :
Leave at the first sign of disrespect. Always.
2026-07-31 20:42:16
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Meeeegan :
Most importantly do not be in a rush!!! They are banking on you settling!!! You are not being selfish!!! You are not being too picky!!! Not everyone has to eventually hate their spouse, that is not normal!!! The right man will be right where he wants to be with your true and authentic self!!!
2026-07-31 21:47:26
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Oldmaidentypeofshoes :
What has helped me is you think you’re being nice to a man when overlooking the ways you aren’t being served. They think you’re stupid.
2026-07-31 21:32:41
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Jesus Fried Christ :
I feel like i deserve compassion and understanding so I offer it to my partner
2026-07-31 19:36:26
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amarillogng :
Every year I raise my standards even further. What fed me at 19 isn’t even suitable for my dog atp.
2026-07-31 19:51:12
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Charlotte :
I feel like people dont get that- you need to know ur boundaries first, so you know what it looks like when someone crosses them. love yourself enough to know what you want matters!
2026-07-31 19:27:43
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wallybaby2014 :
I think having high standards also counts when the person you’re with is a good person and treats you well, but you’re just not a match. Different interests, long term goals, sense of humor, etc. Don’t settle for a good one if they’re not YOUR good one.
2026-08-01 01:46:59
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missdalcala :
Shiiiii I left after 14 years and never looked back and have never been happier. It’s NEVER too late to leave, EVER.
2026-07-31 21:51:36
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Zoey_Redbird215 :
Im worried if I run a strict program im gonna die alone 💀 that's my biggest fear
2026-07-31 22:01:27
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Chris :
This is also tied to everyone's self worth from your first video. Once you realize your worth, step 2 gets easier and easier! love you! 😘
2026-07-31 20:52:10
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plantperson :
one of the worst parts of this break up has been looking back and realizing he never really liked me. why is the world did I stay so long with someone who doesn't like me?
2026-07-31 20:51:12
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squirrel_camp🐿️🏕️🇨🇦 :
I’ve been teaching my daughter this! She’s off to Uni in a few weeks and just had a boy disrespect her, not the first time with this one. I told her that she needs to block and delete at the first disrespect, no 3 chances, no “maybe it was a mistake” BLOCK AND DELETE
2026-07-31 22:19:10
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Kerry Vinton :
I'm 44 and married but my God I wish I had you kicking my arse when I was a teenager. You're a fucking blessing.
2026-07-31 20:00:48
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Rija🫶🏼 :
proud to say i run a STRICT program. I will warn you ONCE. and then i will leave you.
2026-08-01 03:50:01
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Katie Bug 🌈🖤🐞 :
dude it literally took a bad breakup and realizing how embarrassing it would be to walk down the aisle to someone who treated me that way. it’s not how it’s done in the movies.
2026-07-31 21:40:40
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domtam5 :
BE OK TO START AGAIN even after 30 years, don’t be victim of the sank cost fallacy. Ladies learn to feel disgusted after BS behaviour. Stop justifying it, it’s not his trauma, not his family, not his job blah blah blah. If you need to ask if I should leave… YES LEAVE every single time.
2026-08-01 06:26:14
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Sayleansayless :
Lmfao perfect I’m doing it right 😭
2026-07-31 20:01:10
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Paige :
Your book and advice has changed me for the better ❤️You truly are amazing!
2026-07-31 19:42:59
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