@dustythunder_: "AITA for telling my gf I don't wan't her to COOK for me?" #redditstory #storytime #aitareddit #reddit_tiktok ##redditreadings #redditstorytime #storytimes #story #reddit #redditstories
"I like to do things myself" bro you just said your 🌟*parents* pay* a* housekeeper*🌟 for you... thats not doing things yourself at all
2026-07-31 19:51:51
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🫎 just_kat_in_colorado 🫎 :
His PARENTS pay for a housekeeper once a week? But he says he likes to do things himself.... He sounds like a jerk. I suspect GF was just being nice. It feels good to do things for others.
2026-08-02 11:04:12
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Philip :
Sounds like he grew up hearing tons of people shit-talking their former or current partners.
2026-08-03 21:37:40
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sandiafairie :
go separate ways. she deserves better.
2026-07-31 19:46:21
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KK ☕️🎶✨️🍃🫖 :
Therapy. Bro has issues with hyper-independence, probably from childhood neglect or point-scoring caregivers.
2026-07-31 19:53:34
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Jen :
This seems like HE will be the one to hold everything he does over the girlfriends head...
2026-07-31 20:09:10
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Emmi :
He had a parent if not two parents who did this😒he had parents who would hold things they did for him over his head.
2026-07-31 20:45:43
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✨Ren✨ :
Anyone who cannot trust kindness in a partner is not an emotional place to be in a relationship. He has no reason to mistrust her this way and he’s rejecting her acts of love.
2026-08-01 05:57:50
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Hazel-love :
I wonder with all the talk from women about carrying the mental load and doing everything at home, etc. (which is a completely valid talking point) he thinks he’s being proactive so she can’t complain about that. But instead of working together, he’s just being a dick about it.
2026-07-31 22:40:32
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Kiki ☠️ :
20 seconds in, break up now and stop wasting everyone's time
2026-08-03 18:05:11
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Lisa :
YTA… she wants to be loving by doing things for him and he’s to scared to let anyone in…
2026-08-03 16:19:34
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BexxiBex :
i told her how i dont trust her why is she upset?
2026-08-03 10:01:38
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ImNotARedHeadItsMyName :
He’s not ready nor mature enough to be in a relationship.
2026-07-31 20:16:05
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Cruiseshipchouji :
the cooking is her love language dude. learn to speak it
2026-07-31 20:05:39
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drkarenswrld :
I think she understood 💯
2026-07-31 19:58:07
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Amber :
Or his mother made comments like that to him growing up “How could you ‘blank’ after everything I do for you?!”
2026-08-01 18:34:29
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ralphcanning :
“My parents pay a housekeeper” he has mommy issues 😁
2026-08-01 07:14:51
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staciestacy1981 :
Mama holds things over his head. He only trusts people that are paid to do things.
2026-07-31 23:29:27
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Ms.D :
The statement that his parents pay for a house maid..
2026-08-02 04:08:26
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~I am me~ :
he can/wants to do everything himself according to him, yet he has housekeeping?
2026-07-31 21:47:41
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Crystal Melanson :
I 💯 understand him
I have trauma from exs
I dont like or trust when someone does nice things for me... makes me feel like they have ulterior motives
2026-07-31 23:59:49
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👩🏼🦽 Bunnyaimée 🐇 :
i think its great to not expect your partner to do the stereotypical "house" roles & take care of things yourself...but to do it purely in case they hang it over your head...thats a therapy issue
2026-07-31 20:31:07
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cat sparrow :
I’m trying to figure out how GF even got to cook if OP feels this way. He just leaving her hungry til he feels like it? And where is the line… paying bills, birthday gifts, travel, relations, making a dinner reservation? 🙄🙄🙄😏😏😏
2026-07-31 19:53:01
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Sunnybunny :
gf is way more smarter than op
2026-07-31 19:59:36
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