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widdirshins
Nunya :
For me, cooking = love. 😔
2026-08-04 09:01:18
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theutvchick
Jenna :
"I like to do things myself" bro you just said your 🌟*parents* pay* a* housekeeper*🌟 for you... thats not doing things yourself at all
2026-07-31 19:51:51
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just_kat_in_colorado
🫎 just_kat_in_colorado 🫎 :
His PARENTS pay for a housekeeper once a week? But he says he likes to do things himself.... He sounds like a jerk. I suspect GF was just being nice. It feels good to do things for others.
2026-08-02 11:04:12
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thoennep
Philip :
Sounds like he grew up hearing tons of people shit-talking their former or current partners.
2026-08-03 21:37:40
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sandiafairie
sandiafairie :
go separate ways. she deserves better.
2026-07-31 19:46:21
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roomtempmulk
KK ☕️🎶✨️🍃🫖 :
Therapy. Bro has issues with hyper-independence, probably from childhood neglect or point-scoring caregivers.
2026-07-31 19:53:34
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jen_the_book_friend
Jen :
This seems like HE will be the one to hold everything he does over the girlfriends head...
2026-07-31 20:09:10
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emmi60719
Emmi :
He had a parent if not two parents who did this😒he had parents who would hold things they did for him over his head.
2026-07-31 20:45:43
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q.titania
✨Ren✨ :
Anyone who cannot trust kindness in a partner is not an emotional place to be in a relationship. He has no reason to mistrust her this way and he’s rejecting her acts of love.
2026-08-01 05:57:50
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hazel.love1081
Hazel-love :
I wonder with all the talk from women about carrying the mental load and doing everything at home, etc. (which is a completely valid talking point) he thinks he’s being proactive so she can’t complain about that. But instead of working together, he’s just being a dick about it.
2026-07-31 22:40:32
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myhusbandswife11
Kiki ☠️ :
20 seconds in, break up now and stop wasting everyone's time
2026-08-03 18:05:11
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user5194291762239
Lisa :
YTA… she wants to be loving by doing things for him and he’s to scared to let anyone in…
2026-08-03 16:19:34
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bexxibex
BexxiBex :
i told her how i dont trust her why is she upset?
2026-08-03 10:01:38
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imnotaredheaditsmyname
ImNotARedHeadItsMyName :
He’s not ready nor mature enough to be in a relationship.
2026-07-31 20:16:05
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cruiseshipchouji
Cruiseshipchouji :
the cooking is her love language dude. learn to speak it
2026-07-31 20:05:39
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drkarenswrld
drkarenswrld :
I think she understood 💯
2026-07-31 19:58:07
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scrumdidalyumptious
Amber :
Or his mother made comments like that to him growing up “How could you ‘blank’ after everything I do for you?!”
2026-08-01 18:34:29
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ralphcanning
ralphcanning :
“My parents pay a housekeeper” he has mommy issues 😁
2026-08-01 07:14:51
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staciestacy1981
staciestacy1981 :
Mama holds things over his head. He only trusts people that are paid to do things.
2026-07-31 23:29:27
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lilytheboxerdog
Ms.D :
The statement that his parents pay for a house maid..
2026-08-02 04:08:26
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rip_the_blackcat_
~I am me~ :
he can/wants to do everything himself according to him, yet he has housekeeping?
2026-07-31 21:47:41
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crystal.melanson7
Crystal Melanson :
I 💯 understand him I have trauma from exs I dont like or trust when someone does nice things for me... makes me feel like they have ulterior motives
2026-07-31 23:59:49
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bunnyaimee
👩🏼‍🦽 Bunnyaimée 🐇 :
i think its great to not expect your partner to do the stereotypical "house" roles & take care of things yourself...but to do it purely in case they hang it over your head...thats a therapy issue
2026-07-31 20:31:07
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catnsparrow
cat sparrow :
I’m trying to figure out how GF even got to cook if OP feels this way. He just leaving her hungry til he feels like it? And where is the line… paying bills, birthday gifts, travel, relations, making a dinner reservation? 🙄🙄🙄😏😏😏
2026-07-31 19:53:01
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kutykurutty81
Sunnybunny :
gf is way more smarter than op
2026-07-31 19:59:36
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