may I ask so what do you guys really want someone safe and warm, or the toxic person dance
2026-08-16 01:58:57
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Thistle Creek Design :
How would you deal with your adult child received the smear campaign and she's gone no contact and I've only seen my grandson who is two, only for six hrs. My best friend of 18yrs also went no contact. I don't know if I should leave my daughter alone or send a thinking of you txt?
2026-08-01 01:16:32
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🇦🇺 ImpossibleEvie :
I would love to know what to do instead of following that pull/reflex. It’s such a hard thing to resist.
2026-08-04 12:25:19
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user9269951863878 :
this time I left
2026-08-05 16:41:55
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🩵Nicol2e🩵 :
I have encountered people in cult-like groups online who have actually done this "act" to signal for help and then got sucked back into the group again... someone can absolutely trigger that reflex but, when they do and it terrifies them and I see it... completely different story.. there are people out there online and in real life who are being coercively controlled and noone can recognize it... everything you are saying is 💯 correct but, I've gone above this to research how these tactics are used to lure people into cults.. then I have gone above that to separate the victims from the abusers... this requires complete emotional attachment to do and it can go sideways really quick.. but if you remain extremely grounded and confident, you can see exactly what you need to see 🩵🩵🩵 you have a very clear insight, I like it here!
2026-08-01 13:27:49
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Indici :
So good and sad.
2026-07-31 22:10:45
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Craig Hix :
Being the scapegoat can be very toxic.When looked at from the 40,000 foot view the toxic people who are using the scape goat are very predictable on what behavior they are going to display next.It is exhausting.
2026-08-01 12:37:52
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bexegirl :
you explained it so good thx bc this is so truth after narc abuse
2026-07-31 21:11:43
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Theta Mind :
may we know one is not the problem without taking on unnecessary blame
2026-08-01 06:48:49
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blueskyclearwatergirl :
Thank you for explaining this scapegoat reflex pull…. I never knew what that automatic pull was!! It feels sooo bad and I got really good at becoming overly responsible. I became the problem without realizing it. Yes do part 2 and 3!!!
2026-08-01 21:10:10
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