@blue.panties.and.bourbon: Come sit with Mama B for a minute while she gives you some backstory, which will hopefully explain some things and stop some speculation. I'm sorry that when I get worked up it makes my phone flash. I don't know why that happens.
Please try not to victim blame yourself. This was clearly an extremely abusive relationship. Disassociation is a survival tactic. I am so happy you are free of that man! Rooting for you so hard. ❤️🩹🫶🏽❤️🩹
2026-07-31 22:13:27
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Jackal :
That poem was so powerful and heartbreaking and I am so sorry that these cycles came up so many times throughout your life. You are such a strong person to have gotten through all of it, I don’t know if I would have in your shoes. I have nothing but respect for you, and I hope you had a great weekend ❤️
2026-08-04 05:36:38
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LaVey 🏳️🌈 :
I know this message is going to get lost in all the others but I just want you to know how much you’re helping me. I’m currently going through almost the exact same thing with 2 teen daughters. They’re also finding out about my exes ‘secret’ disgusting life. They’re the ones that caught him and had to tell me. I’m so heartbroken
2026-08-01 15:11:41
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LeaAnne🍒✨ :
as much as i love the emails, i love you more. you’re so strong and you’re such a great advocate for DV and SA. we love you Mama B💕
2026-07-31 22:33:15
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Rachel L. :
My ex would say I was kink shaming him when I wouldn’t want to do things with other people. I’m sorry this happened to you.
2026-08-03 18:06:05
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stella 🫶🏼🇵🇸 :
i am so sorry this happened to you. you are so strong. try not to blame yourself. like other commenters, i agree that if you can get into therapy, it’s so helpful. also— you’re so funny: “i’m not a chinese food prostitute but thank you for thinking of me” is going into my lexicon. you are so, so, so incredibly brave sharing all of this. thank you <3
2026-08-04 06:24:53
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A. :
I literally despise this man. I’m so happy you’re free + sharing your story! ❤️🩹
2026-07-31 22:39:43
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rachy :
girllll never apologize. i’m sat for the backstory.
2026-07-31 22:36:16
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Aubrie :
The way your dog always wants to come in each video is so cute to me 😂
2026-07-31 22:34:14
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Grace :
Holy shit this story devastated me. I am SO sorry Brandi that someone you trusted did such horrendous things to you. You are such a strong woman, thank you for sharing your story with us.
2026-08-01 14:18:48
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BrittBrat🤍 :
Brandi I love your transparency and how you’ve taken over your life again! ❤️
2026-07-31 22:14:34
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emily💋 :
ik your thing is you can’t afford therapy but if you’re able to reconsider and find a way to squeeze it into your budget please do!!! therapy is SO life changing and when done properly it LITERALLY alters the chemistry of your brain and how your mind and body respond to the life within AND around you. even just once a month will give you amazing mental tools! there’s lots of non- insurance options, some providers offer “sliding scale” payment based on income. that’s how i go, I pay $99 a visit and go twice a month. therapy helps me discover the best version of who i am and how to make her show up, so i make it happen!
2026-08-02 23:18:39
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hanie :
I am so sorry. I have no words for you. Just know none of this is your fault, and you deserved none of this.
2026-07-31 21:38:52
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Kenzie :
You’re absolutely one of the strongest women I’ve ever seen. Hands down. You didn’t deserve any of this, but yet you keep pushing. Be so proud of yourself.
2026-07-31 23:54:10
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Molly Bee :
He wanted to be you and he couldn’t, so he attempted to destroy you. You are extremely strong.
2026-08-01 03:27:03
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freebriezy :
I’m so sorry for everything that awful man put you through. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
2026-07-31 21:46:50
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David was actually an insect. I’m so sorry you had to go through that.
2026-07-31 22:28:43
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Pink.NailSalon1 :
😳😳😳😳😳NOW AS I AM LISTENING your Story…… in the middle of your video 😳😳😳😳ohhhh my God, he was psychotic. NOT YOUR FAULT. What a Monster to Have you violated Graped and to Watch. Ohhhhh my GOD!!!!😳
2026-08-02 00:01:18
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Yo mama :
It’s crazy how people change over the years/ hide from one. Hope you are doing better Mama!
2026-07-31 21:38:15
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Vitallia Williams :
Your respect and acknowledgement of different or non-monogamous relationships, or the lack of judgement of his curiosity in men is absolutely astounding given the abuse and violence you experienced by people forcing those concepts on you. You are a fantastic woman. Be easy on yourself.
2026-08-01 18:14:28
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Elisabeth Ranger :
😂😂😂 we will put you to sleep.. right on
2026-07-31 22:00:28
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Mary 🎱🪶♣️ :
omg mama i’m so early
2026-07-31 21:22:17
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Jade :
I’m so sorry you’ve experienced these atrocities at the hands of others. Please know the right people care about YOU, not the entertainment you provide or the “opportunity” to grandstand. Your candidness and confidence to tell your story will, and very possibly already has, helped someone else recognize their own strength to find better for themselves. It’s always too easy from the outside to question what seems obvious, but it only seems obvious because YOU are here to make it obvious for us. so, please never let anyone judge you for your journey, what matters anymore is that you are here now, in a community of people who have the capacity to care about YOU, a survivor and an brave, immeasurably strong voice for people who may not have found theirs just yet! I’m so glad we all get to see you be you 😌
2026-07-31 23:30:19
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Dominique :
Oh yeah. He had you surrounded. I get it now. You did all you could ❤️
2026-07-31 22:15:54
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