@nyakuichjohnbiel: Don’t do that weird shit to me💯 #southsudanesetiktokers🇸🇸🇸🇸🇸🇸 #emotionalintelligence #empathy #understanding #fypシ゚viral

Hajar :

People who do this remind me of robots

Libra Fran ⚖️ :

Lol theres two sides of this spectrum bc sometimes thats logic be needed lowkey

ma.kaiah_ :

Like it’s so dismissive

byabebaa :

My favorite show is on 🤣🤣🤣

Iamchrissy :

I take it as a microagression

Amina💐💐 :

Someone give an example of logic

Narno_Invictus🛡️ :

Yeah, I lacked self awareness and I had to do years worth of work to address this and it came at a heavy price but I'm glad that I was able to have the courage to face this

Hussein :

Can you plz start a podcast

(ง︡'-'︠)ง :

Emotional intelligence is not complicated to me so idk why it’s so hard for them🤷‍♀️😒

VV :

Lot of people claim to be emotionally intelligent but when emotions run high they don’t know what to do

notyournorthstar :

you gotta know how to read the room

Heaven🔺🐘 :

facts if im crying and i mean bawling dont tell " theres nothing to cry for and to stop crying"

Demi 🥰 :

But let you be logical with them and all hell breaks loose😭

des.knee :

Because emotions have their own “logic” and logic in emotional situations is juts a lack of emotional intelligence

chelsea :

pinned

sagalaye :

KM :

Sometimes that’s the own way of letting you know that they don’t have capacity to hold you… true, they don’t really know what to do.

Michael Scott :

I had a "friend" like this. 😭 they'd always respond with stuff like "this book that I was reading...", "this one podcast I was listening to..." like okay...

🐣🇱🇷 :

no fr

Halle :

start a podcast plssssss

Prisca M. :

Them people be so defensive too! Trying to defend their wrong way of doing things 🫩

Roz B 🇵🇸🇨🇩🇸🇩🇺🇦♿️🌈💙 :

Not for nothing, That ADHD brain of mine sometimes kicks in fast! I say sometimes because I worked hard to work on them active listening skills. What I am proud of is if I do slip and use logic to one of my kids first, my 14yo will put me in my place. lol " Do you think it's good that you didn't just listen? Why didn't you validate? That wasn't a good job for logic!" I stay quite for a bit, nod, and respond with. I stand corrected. I apologize. I'll continue to work on staying quiet. Most times they accept the apologize. Other times, they say, thank you for apologizing. If they can't stand up to me, how are they going to have the confidence to stand up to other adults?!