Emi :
Is there anything at all I can do to fix this before leaving? The last straw was his friends always making comments about my stories or sharing them in their WhatsApp group. One of them would always say that I post too much. He would make comments like that, sometimes with his fiancée by his side (who agreed with him), but he watched every single story. He was always the first one to view them after I posted. The other one would ALWAYS take a screenshot of one of the photos I posted with my husband and shared it in the group, along with a joke about how my husband is “living his best life.” I know it’s not a huge deal, but I asked my husband to tell them to stop. He blamed me in every possible way and said that I should block them. So I blocked them. Yesterday, I opened my Instagram to the public for the first time, and it only took one day. One day for one of them to find me, God knows how, see the last photo I posted yesterday, and share it in their group. Please understand that the time between me posting a photo, making my Instagram public, and him somehow finding me and sharing it on WhatsApp was less than 12 hours. I told my husband I wasn’t comfortable. I said I felt harassed, like they were constantly looking for me. My husband said I need help, that I’m sick, and that if I say anything, I will embarrass him and everybody will hate me. I felt horrible and ended up politely asking this guy’s wife to ask him to stop. She was also polite and said she would talk to him.
But my husband is so angry with me. Not that he needed this as a reason to hate me more, he was already treating me badly, like VERY BADLY, but he is constantly worried about his reputation with his friends and keeps calling me sick. Please, I need some perspective. I have no one to talk to.
2026-08-01 19:00:29