@secondordermind: Stop making yourself the punchline just to feel accepted. #selfesteem #selfrespect #neuroplasticity #peoplepleasing #selfworth

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jojoparfait
Jojoparfait :
What if I am just telling people I’m useless so they don’t want to use me?
2026-08-01 22:22:48
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d4vi35
d4vi35 :
Perhaps, but self-deprecating humour is also signaling that you’re capable of self-criticism — in other words, you’re not a narcissistic jerk.
2026-08-03 10:01:10
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3vey.rose
Ev :
When I overcame heroin addiction I slept to affirmations 😂
2026-08-02 00:54:27
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the_irish_schopenhauer2
TheIrishchopenhauer2 :
self fulfilling prophecies do not exist. this has been disproven in education multiple times.
2026-08-27 10:57:48
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florentinardo
florentinardo :
if you think or write it down the effect is the same?
2026-08-01 16:05:13
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glue1452
Glued :
Can you make a book recommendation for the topics you talk on and books you read at the start.
2026-08-01 15:47:19
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productions_ima_klip_inc
Ima-klip inc. :
Thank you did you have that experience?
2026-08-23 18:50:30
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sargenthouston2
sargenthouston :
oh my God you're pretty😳 RESPECTFULLY
2026-08-01 19:48:20
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monontheblock
Mon on the Block: Sine 💚s LA :
YES U CANNOT CONTROL PPLS REACTIONS ANYWAY THEY WILL RESENT UR COMPETENCE ANYWAY IT IS NOT WORTH IT
2026-08-02 20:59:41
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douge239
Doug (Commissions Open!) :
I’ve believed those things for so long that I don’t know if I can shake them at this point
2026-08-03 19:04:44
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dionallanoid
dionallanoid :
Loser - Tame Impala
2026-08-25 14:27:34
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calenhir
Calenhir :
hmmm, this is interesting one. like cursed circle
2026-08-02 08:14:07
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zubair32125
zubair321 :
that says a lot
2026-08-02 22:56:27
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hott.estmusicnow
hott.estmusicnow :
So that’s why. I’m smart, that’s why they wanted to reject me 😳
2026-08-02 01:54:08
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cretumihaimirel
MihaiMirelCretu :
i am looking in the mirror speaking but have green eyes and i am women ? 😏
2026-08-18 23:45:15
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rodrigobeg6
Queroo ✋🏻 :
I have a question, and what happens when your enviroument says it all the time, but, they say the same things, over and over again no matter what circumstances or whatever changes, what could be the next step then, if resignation it's already settled for the one trapped in the loop
2026-08-09 19:50:53
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your.littledemongirl
violet :
oh man. your so right though.
2026-08-01 15:48:39
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nightschrome
nightschrome :
have you noticed how normalized self-deprecating “humour” is in american movies? I wonder why, can’t be propaganda, can it? Hmm I wonder who writes those scripts
2026-08-01 15:59:46
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linnea.ilo
Linnea :
I want to TATTOO THIS to my brain <3<3<3
2026-08-01 18:27:48
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fml98711
! :
I've somehow managed to shift from self depreciation to talking about myself in a neutral way I'm not sure that's better but at least the needle moved
2026-08-04 21:46:11
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storm.sunfire
Storm Sunfire :
This! 👆 We have been conditioned to be this way.
2026-08-27 21:39:53
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politiciansinpris1
PoliticiansInPrisions :
You’re Miss character rising self-esteem because self-esteem and confidence is the ability to laugh at yourself in the face of embarrassment. Somethings wrong with this theory.
2026-08-05 15:16:48
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politiciansinpris1
PoliticiansInPrisions :
I would happily have this debate. I don’t believe this theory is entirely accurate. The inability to laugh at yourself makes you more susceptible to embarrassment not less.
2026-08-05 15:18:40
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giannis.papam
giannis :
As you said, if you do that over a period of time you'll lose your self respect. If that has happened to you,just try to get some small wins. Stop constantly comparing to others, stop overthinking your mistakes or past failures. Just go for a long walk, go for a coffee in a beautiful place, give yourself some moments of peace and happiness and try to stop your mind when it makes you think low of yourself. Do that over a period of time and you'll train your mind back to a healthy place.
2026-08-01 16:08:15
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