@kinngmax:

djchallenger4 :

This type of behavior is called darvo. You can look it up understand it better.

Sillygoose :

This is called DARVO, men and women do it, it’s strategic accountability avoidance

Daniel :

For those who can’t repost

Barb Krzyzak :

that's called narcissistic behavior. run for your life.

Chuck A :

That’s the reason I never bring up any issues with my wife. No matter how wrong she is, she ends up bringing up something from 5+ years ago.

Nickyn :

So many saves, yet so little repost. That tells a lot bout us man

Taylorfrmbd :

the fact is it just when she around certain mates honestly fucks me up genuinely I put so much effort into her for what cost just for her to switch off and feel like I'm doing shyt wrong

👁️👄👁️ :

shes literally doing something we agreed upon not to do. yet im the bad one when talking about it lol.

Big bad bear :

Here is a little secret for you, if you think it’s bad with a gf, it gets worse when you’re married:

sharkboy1235476 :

Bru I’m going through this same thing rn and it hurts because all I want to do is be a great guy for her but it seems like I can’t ever do anything right and I always end up apologizing for something

Takieddinee :

As someone who went through this, she’s not gonna change and it’s not worth it.

voodoomojo :

if someone is refusing to have a conversation about their behavior, eliminate them from your life.

Ayomide🥷🏽 :

dat shit really sucks nd kill d energy

ScottyC :

Walk away. She’s not worth it.

k8tee2828 :

It’s called matching your energy

cryxx :

he reposted this yet he's the one who's always laughing when i'm mad, not taking me seriously when i open up about our rs and also not even taking accountability everypossible ways the he could hurt me, im so confused

Dan literally :

holy bullseye

Matthew P.C. Whitney :

dpj486 :

Nothing worse than having to avoid a conversation because you know it will immediately turn hostile.

Blhouch :

Almost every single person is going to act defensively when you have a conversation about their behavior. It’s not a guy/girl thing, it’s human nature.

Laura :

Usually the other way around

radsabat :

Men aren’t lonely enough

catsofafeather :

So he’s mad because he can’t control her. This is why we are picking a life with cats.

Nioka Sizemorel :

Son, this is what marriage is all about...and if you have an argument that you are clearly correct for having the feelings you are having, she will not only try to turn this whole thing around on YOU but, she will tell everyone in her circle against you and make you feel even worse!!!....we are never told this in the beginning but we painstakingly find out thru the years

Crazy Minnesota Mark :

That is classic narcissism