I have a strong suspicion that he only proposed because he noticed her getting ready to leave, or emotionally settling.
2026-08-02 03:05:13
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User4678990 :
You move on, propose to the next woman that you’ve only dated for 6 to 9 months, then you spend the rest of your life regretting not proposing to your first girlfriend a lot earlier. It’s a tale as old as time.
2026-08-02 05:41:05
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megs :
That’s a “damn…HERE.” Ring 😕
2026-08-02 05:47:03
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Beverly. 🇬🇬 :
10 years is clearly a shut up ring. I’d say no too.
2026-08-02 07:48:50
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elin.ad.astra :
I think it’s both an American thing and an age thing. My fiancé and I are Swedish, and here it’s very common to be in a common-law relationship and live together (and even have kids) before getting married. We met when we were 18 and 20, and he proposed 12.5 years later, really surprised me. We’d already been living together for years, so getting engaged just felt like the natural next step and we’re super happy.
2026-08-02 12:06:18
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Mary Kiottou :
After ten years you gave her a shut up ring, when you realised you couldn't get anyone better than her, what did you expect
2026-08-02 07:46:32
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Olive&Jack :
Let her go. You’re not in love with her. You’re just ready to be married. Go find your wife.
2026-08-02 12:02:49
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tilly85857 :
Sorry 10 years is too long, unless you started dating in middle school. She is valid in feeling that way.
2026-08-02 00:14:48
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Don’t Call Me James :
It took him 10 years to figure out no one else wanted him ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
2026-08-02 02:36:45
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Lisa Marie :
Well yeah it shouldn't take a whole ass decade to decide if this person is your end game. But why did she stick around for 10 years?
2026-08-02 00:05:19
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Carmen :
waiting 10 years is fucked up
2026-08-02 05:55:30
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breebreecakes :
Been with my man for over 10 yrs too. What are you gonna wait to ask when we are in our 30s 🙄
2026-08-02 12:05:58
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Wickers :
I think it’s super important to understand ✨why✨ you waited 10 years and that she understands too. Is it because you didn’t have the money to buy the ring and have the wedding you dreamed of? Or was it because you “settled” and didn’t think anyone else was better out there? They’re very different.
2026-08-02 08:24:08
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Tequila Coco🥥🍍🔮🌙──⃝─⃝⃝⃝⃝── :
she probably begged for a long time and finally decided to leave and you proposed AFTER the fact. once you have to ask for something, it's already too late.
2026-08-02 03:03:33
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Lucifer Morningstar :
People in the comments acting like a proposal is some proof of love or commitment. This world is disappointingly dumb.
2026-08-02 10:37:41
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Calypso🌙 :
I was with a man for 3 years. And found out he got married 4 months ago. I was still seeing him and had no idea. When I found out I was devestated. He made me believe for 3 years I was gonna be the one he married and it never happened.
2026-08-02 12:07:46
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prncess_car0lyn :
If you don’t know after three yrs if you wanna marry them or not, break up and move on and quit wasting both of y’all’s time 👀 3 yrs is enough time to decide if you wanna marry someone or not.
2026-08-02 12:05:43
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Faye Jones :
dude noticed she was checking out and presented a shut up ring 🤪
2026-08-02 04:26:25
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janedoe2707 :
what changed? she probably emotionally checked out and he picked up on that lmao
2026-08-02 05:34:36
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yordanova_mk :
valid reaction from her
2026-08-02 08:05:44
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Flower_of_Steel :
She’s a savage for waiting for you to propose and reject you. Play the long game props to her, now you’ll never forget her and will see her happy with someone else.
2026-08-02 06:08:31
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Herfyjo :
My husband proposed after 10 months. Been married over 30 years. When you know, you know. It shouldn’t take a decade to decide.
2026-08-02 06:13:29
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Kiki 🌸👱🏻♀️ :
If you were 18/19 when you started dating and you proposed at 29, then it is ok. But if she was 30 and you proposed at 40, then heck no. 🚩🚩🚩🚩😂🤦♀️
2026-08-02 10:15:01
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whosthisdina :
10 years is such a shut up ring. I’d say no tooooo 😭😂
2026-08-02 11:21:49
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