Grow with Kaela
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Saturday 01 August 2026 22:05:55 GMT
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Jay Francisco G❌ G7️⃣ :
Unfortunately they are right. They aren't worthy of it.
2026-08-02 01:41:21
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justbuiltdifferent_ :
I'm the avoidant - he's the anxious - I'm doing the work... the love is worth it and I am doing things differently this time - I'm not running
2026-08-03 20:23:44
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lagarolamine :
DA here. It's not that we don't believe we're not worthy of Love, we don't care about Love
2026-08-22 23:29:46
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Harriet Berholtz :
I threw him a beautiful birthday party. I made him food all the time I loved his family, and it was like he resented me before it would tell me I never asked you to do that. It was like he was mad at me or embarrassed that I threw him a birthday party.
2026-09-04 15:12:41
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G world :
Avoiding or not willing to even feel their emotions? What is the difference between capacity and willingness?
2026-08-01 22:11:51
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adobo0118 :
I made this mistake. As someone who is anxious, I know I was also equally at fault. But the issue is if I brought up things that hurt me, he would pull the “nothing I do is good enough for you, I’m horrible” so I would have to comfort him and minimize my own feelings to keep his satisfied
2026-08-08 02:27:46
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jw1988 :
could use a bit of guidance on the work needed. im avoidant. I hate this crap. my wife deserves better out of me. i want this for me and us
2026-08-05 01:58:47
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Mr Angry :
It’s 💯not worth it. They only get worse over time. Once you catch them in lies they’ve told you to hide their real self, it’s over. They back off and never fully return.
2026-08-05 18:54:33
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Andrew H :
This helps. Thank you
2026-08-02 23:20:34
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Benjamin Short :
Not according to her.
2026-08-24 22:26:40
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user5889472633978 :
How do you tell them this when it’s time? They don’t see it. How do you communicate why you can’t stay anymore?
2026-08-26 17:20:25
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Northernlight3397 :
Can you comment on two things like I feel like the people around them like their friends could never imagine the level of like abuse and neglect that they embody in their relationships and then I obviously I don't think they're like honest with them either about the relationship or even having one so do you think there's red redemption?
2026-08-03 19:03:18
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Andrew :
She spent so much time trying to hold up a wall I’d already seen behind and accepted.
2026-08-03 00:40:56
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malley.moo :
How can I support a DA trying to do the work?
2026-08-06 04:08:07
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CV :
what about FA ?
2026-08-30 00:35:11
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☆♡ ✨ 𝓖𝓮𝓲𝓻𝓾 ✨♡☆ :
I broke down listening to this ..
2026-08-02 23:45:38
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J R Wells :
15 years it's like I'm in a Twilight zone episode. I'm gonna die loving this woman she's gonna live rent free in my head. I've never felt like this with anyone in my life I know we're never going to see each other again but I can't change how I feel nor do I want to. ❤️
2026-08-01 23:05:07
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💧Sil💧 :
100%
2026-08-07 09:44:32
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Vanexa :
On top of being a DA his character was not a good man. Lies, secretive, controlling, more lies, and a taker and a half. So happy he ghosted me 13 months ago.
2026-08-02 08:01:37
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hooprunner :
It took me almost 9 years to work out that my partner is EA, nine years of wondering what was wrong with me, why was I so hard to love, putting in 10 times the effort and getting next to nothing back, wondering why they were always looking for something else. Now I know. I am enough.
2026-08-07 02:04:54
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Rusted0101 :
Can you talk about the woman they date after you… Like on a long-term relationship. My ex avoidant gave the Rebound everything he didn’t give me…. And now I’m left with wondering why I wasn’t good enough, especially after four years together.
2026-08-02 21:02:48
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Eri E Rivera :
Thank you for saying this, I know someone who is like they come in and out of my life so many times and it doesn’t matter if you change or better your self it has nothing to do with me but their lack of capacity but I’m so glad I love myself more and over trying to prove that love. You can love someone but understand they don’t know how to receive that love but that’s not your problem to solve. I rather be that person who loved deeply then be that person who lost someone who loved them deeply
2026-08-01 22:16:16
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mzs.mobley :
With God all things are possible.
2026-08-03 23:20:56
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DruidofLilith :
Thank you for being honest 💚🙏
2026-08-08 11:07:58
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Bpunchy :
That's not true
2026-08-02 14:42:31
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