@eyemindspirit: when it gets too intense, they go quiet, pull back and try to handle it alone. 😔 #avoidantattachment #overwhelmed #relationshipadvice #selfawareness #foryou
she did all of these. I was the anxious one in the relationship and she was the avoidant. No matter how much I worried I saw that it didn’t help her avoidance at all. I began to become less anxious such as obtaining more patience and I understood her more. I thought if we met somewhere in the middle then we would have worked out. However I realized that I was the only one willing to change for the benefit of our relationship. She wanted me to solely change while she could keep doing whatever she wanted whether it bothered me or not. In the end, I found out she cheated on me twice.
2026-08-21 00:22:27
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Austin H :
My girl is having this happen, is there anything I can do to help her or just keep my consistency so she knows I’m safe to return to when she has recharged?
2026-08-02 07:36:23
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f4ckher :
where i can buy a book
2026-09-05 06:23:07
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Melusinne :
I got tired waiting for him to sort himself out. I made him remember that what he did will always be his fault and there will be no more chances. I don’t deserve to be treated that way. Blocked him for good.
2026-08-02 12:58:14
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namu :
even though just broke up, i still care about her. i want her to help herself. i needed to work on my anxious attachment and i have made lots of progress. i can’t make her grow but i can encourage it, but she has to be willing. i don’t know if we will ever try again so maybe all this thinking is useless. worst case i am still more secure than before for another relationship.
2026-08-02 20:22:40
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TomE :
I think there’s a lot more posts out there putting the responsibility on people to sort out their partners problems instead of putting it on the person to sort their own issues out
2026-08-02 13:32:40
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Mit_halløj :
@mootje
2026-08-02 15:15:15
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