@tjshimeld: When growing up in the US, I saw very little representation of who I was as a gay guy. Gay was a punchline in tv shows. There was one out gay kid in my high school. I never saw gay couples in public holding hands, or kissing. So I suppressed who I was for most of my life.😬 Got married. Had a kid. Because that’s what I saw representing around me.🫡 Once I embraced my authentic self, my husband, daughter, and I moved to Spain.🇪🇸 Pride flags, transgender graffiti, and gay couples walking hand-in-hand are everywhere.🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️💪 A subtle nod to let me know it is ok to be me. ❤️🥰❤️ ✨Embrace Your MAGIC✨ and ❤️Live Your DREAMS 🌈 #gayfriendly #comingout #gaycouple #gaymenlifecoach #comingoutlaterinlife

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ar115094
ar🇲🇨 :
hy me single gay
2026-08-09 17:33:18
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santiago_brian0
Brian :
single and need my man
2026-08-10 08:47:29
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laugrierr
laugrierr :
It makes me so happy to know you feel safe and included in my country 💖 we still have a long way to go in inclusion and social justice but considering we come from a fascist dictatorship just over 50 years ago, we’ve come a long way
2026-08-03 10:49:41
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flamenco1979
🇷 🇦 🇲 🇴 🇳 :
Welcome 🫶🏼
2026-08-02 17:36:10
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yurenafantasia
Yurena Fantasía :
So glad u love our country ❤️❤️❤️
2026-08-02 15:01:00
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vaneoo_official
Vaneoo :
Glad to hear you feel welcomed and respected here!!! - just keep in mind, this state of things is the result of many, many years of fight: led by the community but also by a BIG chunk of the society. Let's keep things this way and maintain ourselves alert: same as elsewhere if people don't offer resistance, fascists will erase the rights earned 💪💪💪
2026-08-02 15:50:04
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_blancarey
Blanca Rey :
To those who have come to Spain looking for a new life: it might also be worth learning a bit more about its history. Centuries before the U.S. civil rights movement, Spain had already enacted the Laws of the Indies, which established legal protections for Indigenous peoples. Real history is often more interesting than stereotypes.
2026-08-02 15:23:59
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te.enseno.a.estudiar
te enseño a estudiar :
i was part of the lgtbq+ right for marriage equality in Madrid in the 90's ♥️we knew the Spanish people were years ahead of the injusto laws and fought knowing we would prevail ♥️
2026-08-03 17:42:56
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spanish1208
Caesar :
TJ Bienvenido a tu segundo hogar.🥰
2026-08-04 07:14:50
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tylergraham76
Nathan Webb :
Good to see you again
2026-08-03 03:36:49
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user2515583878295
amanda💕 :
parque de la paloma es un lugar adorable 🥰 y tu manera de hablar de España también gracias
2026-08-03 06:55:39
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alejandriaz245
Alejandriaz245 :
tristemente depende de la zona, a mi me hicieron quitar la bandera lgtbq+ de mi edificio en madrid porque “era ideología”
2026-08-03 04:36:57
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issaabook
Isabook 📚☕✨ :
Vivi durante 3 años en Arroyo de la miel, y pasear por el parque de las palomas era mi momento conmigo misma 🥰🥰 Tengo grandes recuerdos paseando por ahí, con mi tripa de embarazo de casi 9 meses... viendo las tortugas chapotear en el agua... Es un lugar precioso 🥰🥰🥰
2026-08-02 20:39:51
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harry.frederickso
harry Frederickson :
am gay and am proud
2026-08-05 23:12:28
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gaylazarus
The Gay Lazarus :
Gay European, 67, here. Happy you found your place. But in Europe, graffiti isn’t acceptance. It’s vandalism, whatever message it carries. 🏳️‍🌈🥰
2026-08-06 07:41:15
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jjlucas061
J. J. Lucas. :
Enjoy your new homeland. Wellcome to Spain.
2026-08-03 13:05:35
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isa174722
isa :
🫂
2026-08-08 18:49:08
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blake.sheltion06
blake sheltion :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-08-10 09:29:47
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parveenakhtar5381
Parveen Akhtar Pravin akhtarna :
✝️✝️✝️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🇵🇰🇵🇰🤲🤲
2026-08-10 15:53:51
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johnfredrick190
John Fredrick🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈 :
is anyone need gay hook up? I'm always available
2026-08-10 11:54:47
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