or then you have the women who are like “why would you want that? you need to have your own time, and find who you are and travel and live your life at this age” all bc i’m 23 with a 4 year old and another one on the way. like idk jessica maybe i wanted kids early bc my childhood sucked and i partied all my teens so i wanna settle down now
2026-08-02 16:31:35
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emilie 🧸🎞️🖤🕯️ :
they don’t understand that some of us genuinely enjoy motherhood and family because they’re miserable within themselves lol
2026-08-02 17:35:37
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emmaandkoda :
Not to mention, all the people who think it’s selfish and wrong to have kids, “because the world is in a horrible place rn” as if there isn’t always some wild shit going on in the world
2026-08-02 23:05:55
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KH :
I love my husband! I love our baby! I LOVE being a mom!! Not for one minute have I ever felt like I’m wasting my life or regret it. This is the most at peace and content I’ve ever been. I feel like I’m doing exactly what I need to do right now and I’m enjoying every moment. I don’t understand what’s wrong with that and I don’t rlly care. Grass is greener where you water it and I’ve got myself a flourishing garden so womp womp 😂
2026-08-02 23:25:02
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nicolettehale1 :
misery loves company & people hate seeing others happy it’s pathetic to see 😭
2026-08-02 15:27:39
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madisonpowers :
its the same thing for baby loss It don't matter people are shitty 💯
2026-08-02 23:51:15
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🕷️ :
Or you could say “we’re so happy” then you get called a bird💀
2026-08-02 20:49:59
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Syd :
I think people are forgetting it’s a choice. You can choose that if that is what you want to do. However I think it is very harmful when young women are coming to the internet saying that other young women should only get married early and have children and that be their life. I think a lot of the issue that’s getting turned is that women need to be independent on their own before getting into responsibilities like this, and not rely on the man, if that makes sense
2026-08-02 17:57:14
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Mya Jean ✨🎀 :
Im 21 and pregnant with baby 3 people are INSANE 😩 LIKE SORRY I LOVE MY LIFE AND BEING A MOTHER
2026-08-02 22:24:59
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Kaylah Rose :
This is why I’m pro-choice because these women who are so bitter about being mothers shouldn’t be mothers. Some of the most vile comments I’ve seen about children are from other moms and it makes me so sad for their babies
2026-08-02 19:10:23
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Ella Jean :
it’s bc they’re misogynists! 🥰
2026-08-02 20:29:02
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Rae :
my favorite is when they talk about the economy like not all of us are stupid with money
2026-08-02 19:58:12
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landry# :
Will be a great mom and I wish you the best of luck
2026-08-02 19:43:55
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*𝘻𝘦𝘳𝘰* :
i think the “just wait” comments are a part of being a first time mom😭
2026-08-02 17:52:12
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Nat :
I watched a video on this, it’s being so overly progressive that they end up “overly woke” and going completely against their own views. Like being so pro-choice that they become woman haters and baby/ motherhood haters
2026-08-02 21:54:04
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evejasmine :
FOR REAL 🤣😭
2026-08-02 21:36:33
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Meaghan | mom life :
I’ve never seen someone being pregnant and thought “oh god look at that poor thing. let me go tell her how horrible her life is about to get” like wtf is wrong with people
2026-08-02 17:18:28
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he_loves.haydin :
Nah fr they all h8 on me cause I’m 18 pregnant but I’m ENGAGED. Like me and my fiancé wanted our son. They said “your life is ruined” meanwhile they have never experienced having a kid and going through the process. My sil in now a RN. She did it with 2-3 kids, now she has 4. Like your life is never over or ruined until YOU, YOURSELF make it to be 🥰
2026-08-02 17:59:19
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kiel🫧 :
miserable people try to spread it unfortunately:( on a positive note me and my good friend literally shared your announcement with eachother same time because we were so happy for you, you’re gonna be a great mom love this new chapter ❤️
2026-08-02 15:38:03
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🌴🥥 :
People project so hard it’s so annoying like 🗣️“it’s so unethical to have a baby in this economy” 🗣️like babe I’m an engineer I’m good
2026-08-02 20:36:36
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🦋olly :
my son will be 16m old when his brother comes, i KNOW i'll have my hands full but at least theyre not empty
2026-08-02 18:59:16
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msaddams26 :
I think the same thing bout ppl I used to work w who I feel r waiting for me to have such a shitty ass life just so they can throw pointless ass sayings in my face an say I told u so like my life will never be shitty just cause ur life is my life is amazing
2026-08-02 19:48:48
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Jess :
My life with two has been such shambles I’m 7 months pregnant with a third 🤪🥰
2026-08-02 19:51:38
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lyric :) :
I was LITERALLY just talking about this with my bsf, the fear mongering on this app about being a mom (any kind of mom) is ridiculous. Why does being a mother have to be hard and scary? I’m on my second and it’s the best thing I’ve been able to enjoy in life lol I love my stay at home life with my babies
2026-08-02 17:50:06
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lilly | young mama 🌷 :
literally!!!
2026-08-02 21:16:01
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