@itsashleydrew: high effort & intentional motherhood / parenting and the unexpected pushback I had to navigate :-/ #boundaries #motherhood #newmomlife #intentionalparenting #breakinggenerationalcycles

Ashley Drew | @ItsAshleyDrew
Ashley Drew | @ItsAshleyDrew
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c_hakuna
C.R :
This 👏and it’s always the people who I don’t even want parenting advice from. I bought a toy kitchen for my child…”oh,I used to let my child play with old pots”As someone whose parents were not very present,even my bare minimum apparently seems to be too much 😂
2026-09-20 22:33:29
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warmdaysonly
warmdaysonly :
I stopped caring! I am her MOTHER and I will do what I want and be her MOTHER! I do annoying with the constant unwanted opinions.
2026-09-22 01:10:20
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nicolepresfield
Cedez :
If a person is not attentive to my child on the same level that i am, they will not be with my child alone.
2026-08-03 17:02:43
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s_talb624
Sam :
my parents called me a helicopter parent because I yelled at them for not changing my son's diaper after he audibly pooped. they said "diaper rash is just a part of life" HUHHH? Just because yall neglected us does not mean you get to neglect my son
2026-08-02 18:36:38
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justraq__
Raquel | Visual StoryTeller :
Im a high effort mom…and so many ARENT
2026-08-02 19:01:24
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naimaalexiss_
nai :
Why can’t I save this💔
2026-09-20 16:32:08
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roleekaah
Roleekaaah :
hiii my mom was like you. your baby is gonna fight but teach how to f1ght
2026-09-21 19:09:05
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shnosh.u
mugiwara :
No one has more haters than a mother who does everything right.
2026-08-21 13:49:47
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jsbsuxbwozb7283
jsbsuxbwozb7283 :
A lot of people raised kids with no agenda, so they can’t understand someone not winging motherhood
2026-08-02 17:50:37
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mommyevaugni2
BIG MOMMA of 2 :
Their grandma would say " I raised 6 kids I know what I'm doing" anytime I would say how I was raising my daughter...my response "and I don't want me kid ending up like any of your 6" was it rude yes but the audacity of people that don't just let a mom be a mom
2026-08-03 10:51:57
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myatheicon
amya :
right… my mother always tell me she’s never seen a baby so attached to their mother like my son is to me.. am i supposed to be offended? 😂😂
2026-08-03 03:38:28
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itschayli
chayli ❤️‍🔥 :
“Puerto Rico for her 1st bday she’s not gonna remember it” yeah and you will and the 1st birthday is more of a celebration for the parents first year of survival anyway 😭 You’re hit the nail on the head
2026-08-03 03:51:09
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thatgirlhass
Hasina - SAHM/W :
I learned people are offended because it calls out the lack in them
2026-08-03 01:42:37
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memeggss
Megan Merrick 💍 :
Because people are lazy. Give your children everything and love them loudly 🥰
2026-08-03 14:26:38
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kkaayyllaa000
Kayla O 🌻 :
I was told teaching my son sign language was extra. But I can communicate in 2 different languages before he hit 2.🫤
2026-08-05 00:31:18
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lennaa_15
Selena Andrade :
Here’s a lil sum for her bday✨✨✨
2026-08-04 17:47:41
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nasadxg
Aims 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 :
never been prouder of my partner than when my MIL said "hes going to learn that every time he cries you'll pick him up" and he said "and he'll learn that his parents are there for him and he'll have emotional security. oh noooo"
2026-08-22 16:21:57
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hellorubi
Rubi 🍒 :
I was judged bc I didn’t want to give my baby sugar. Everyone around me was like “we had sugar growing up and we’re fine” “we’re on vacation” etc I was PISSED.
2026-08-06 00:25:39
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aboutmcfcknhadit
BrickbyBoringBrick :
THISSSS and a bunch of other reasons why I quite literally trust no one to watch my baby without me present.
2026-08-04 18:05:39
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thatbabetaylor
Taylizzy :
I was outside the whole first year with my daughter at all the museums and parks. Everything. People were like she’s not gonna remember them like okay?!? New experiences help grow their mind also I could be gone like tomorrow so why not?
2026-08-03 14:19:44
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sandrai993
Sandra :
What people can’t do or provide for their own children they get offended when they see a parent who is able to do those things for their kids.
2026-08-02 17:35:29
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carebykylieb
Kylie :
Us with being screen free until at least 2. My little one is 1.5 and we still get “oh it’s easy now but just wait till you get to real screen time age, you’ll cave” like okay maybe but for me, I’m willing to put in the effort 🤷🏼‍♀️
2026-08-04 03:09:23
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lizzj
Lizandraj :
“They won’t even remember” okay but I will. I enjoy my kids. How about doing things for them makes me happy because I like my kids. “They won’t remember” but I WILL. I will remember the magic in their eyes for the rest of MY life.
2026-08-02 20:29:36
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user91957335863875
AB1993 :
The breastfeeding pisses them OFF if they either couldn’t or wouldn’t do it!! So shocking as a first time mom 😳 like wth
2026-08-02 23:05:15
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stellamck
SAHM Stella :
It’s projection and jealousy. Also when women talk to me like motherhood is a breeze and it’s easy and also have 5/6 kids… I just know it’s because they were/are low effort. Because if you cared it is time consuming and hard work. Nothing about motherhood is easy when you care to give your child the absolute best of everything from food to atmosphere to learning etc.
2026-08-04 05:24:24
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