I think it's insane that you still have to share custody of your daughter with someone that negligent. My heart breaks for you everytime she leaves💔
2026-08-02 18:55:58
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stellaaaaa.17 :
The last week of my daughter’s life was spent in her home but the week before was her dad’s. She was dying of cancer and we knew it was coming. She came home and I could tell she wasn’t going to be here much longer. I’d frequently asked her dad how she was and it was always “she’s fine! She’s having a good time” then he saw her unresponsive in the hospital 2 days after she came home and he said “this is how she’s been for the last couple days, I just thought she was tired” and she spent those days laying on the couch, downstairs. Probably ignored. I’m so sorry you lost him in this way, but he knows how much you miss and love him 🧡
2026-08-02 19:54:20
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Elizabeth Haarstad :
Always love listening to you speak of Wilder 🥹💜
2026-08-02 17:52:42
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Raiya Flores :
I’ve been watching you since you came to TikTok to first share what happened to Wilder. Your pain is unimaginable but your strength and courage is so admirable. I always will tune in to
2026-08-03 22:43:40
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Dayna Marie :
The LEAST his “father” could have done is sat with you and told you all the things Wilder did in his last week. All the fun things, the silly laughs and good times.
2026-08-03 12:07:27
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Jaymee🐝 :
His father is a hatful man for not providing those answers, that’s the absolute least he could’ve done considering ♥️
2026-08-31 02:00:06
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ils :
I’m so sorry mommy. It’s insane how you’re forced to give ur babies to someone else and they’re not forced to give u any updates or anything while they have them
2026-08-02 17:55:41
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hannah pierson 🖤 :
Wilder has forever changed a lot of people because of you 🫂
2026-08-02 18:01:41
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Katrina :
Cried for you, for Wilder, and the future without him in it. Thank you for sharing him with us
2026-08-03 02:33:17
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Ivy :
There was a red Lego at our local park and I thought of Wilder in KY. Thank you for sharing pieces of him with us!!
2026-08-03 01:43:36
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Christina :
You are so strong and say the most beautiful things. He is watching over you.
2026-08-02 17:53:34
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La Lu :
Thank you for sharing Wilder with us. I cry every time you talk about him. As a mom myself, I take to heart all the ways you share your precious son with us. All the little things you think about and remember are important and I’m grateful to hear them and to know him through you. ♥️
2026-08-02 18:10:28
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Ruaddressingi :
I’ve been following the Lindsay Clancy case (which is devastating for a lot of reasons) but one thing it made me think of is how I’m surprised that Wilder’s dad never faced any charges. No involuntary manslaughter. Nothing. Not only that but having continued required visitation with your daughter. Blows my mind.
2026-08-03 22:41:29
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jeca050709 :
oh mama. One thing is for sure. He missed you & loved you so much.
2026-08-02 21:35:29
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Irina Grows 🌱🧩🎶📚🍄 :
You’re right, he should be here & it’s SO unfair. I’m so sorry that this is your reality. What a beautiful soul, he should be here with you.
2026-08-02 22:35:06
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Gayle Peters MN :
Love and peace to you from Minnesota ❤️🩹
2026-08-02 18:52:49
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bella_boredgal_rose :
As a silent follower for years on the other side of the world I burst out crying when I saw the montage of him. The way you talk about him is through every part of his personality- every quirk, every interest. I wasn’t expecting to see the little boy that is larger than life through your stories after it. I am so sorry there are parts of your grief that have been highjacked. I liken it to those of the families of the victims of senseless crimes that never will get the answers as to why. You are the strongest person I’ve been lucky to witness. Keep doing what you’re doing in your grief. As someone who’s forced to move forward, you’re doing the best you can with it in sharing him with us ❤️
2026-08-05 09:21:54
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Astraea :
I love when you show videos of him. He looks like such a sweet lil guy. Every time I see him, I notice something I didn’t before. This time I realize his hair is so blonde! #wilderforever
2026-08-03 04:12:30
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Christie :
What beautiful last words to him🫶🏻
2026-08-03 09:25:26
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Maheenz :
He should be here ❤️you're such a strong woman and a great mother
2026-08-02 17:59:01
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Sandy :
Love hearing about Wilder. But just know he knows all your thoughts about him and feels your love. I know he tries to help you with your pain. He's all around you everyday. ❤️🥰
2026-08-03 03:36:56
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Lauren Nichols :
The vulnerability you share with us teaches me so much. I am so much more intentional with goodbyes and the moments I share with my children. I don’t take it for granted anymore. I believe you were meant to teach many people lessons on grief. Wilder is apart of it all. I wish you didn’t have to have such a hard life journey. Sending my love and light.
2026-08-02 18:00:45
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Hanna Farneland :
You might not know how he spent his last week, but he knew that you love him until the last minute ❤️all the love to you
2026-08-02 18:03:14
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heatheracullen :
I love hearing you speak of Wilder. I’m thankful you share the love you have for him, with us. Sending love your way always.
2026-08-02 23:23:39
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jocelyn :
I love listening to you speak and cope . You’re so strong
2026-08-02 18:01:42
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