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DeeDee :
oooh absolutely 💯. fear of the unknown. all these questions go through my head!
2026-08-05 09:45:09
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Katherina Costelloe :
When love shows up you will know 💯
2026-08-05 16:21:22
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Nicky Mathews388 :
You seem like a really nice man, I think my problem is I get emotionally attached too quick… too much love to give 🤷🏻♀️
2026-08-04 18:55:34
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suzannefw :
The tough thing is, we have to risk getting hurt, we have to make ourselves vulnerable, we have to put faith in you and someone else and take that leap, or you'll never find love. If you take the leap and things work out, that is brilliant, if not, it will hurt for some time but you'll get over it and you'll be a stronger and better person for it. There's always something to gain from it either way, if you have the right mindset. The inner work will guide you.
2026-08-04 15:32:59
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deegee4037 :
I think it starts out as fear but then comes realisation and you’re okay without it
2026-08-04 22:22:56
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Serena5619 :
I’m 58, think I’m past ever finding anyone
2026-08-05 21:13:01
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Nicola Roberts7985 :
I am about 2 and half years out of a 19 year DA relationship. I had a few connections at the beginning of being ‘free’ but now I have done group therapy and counselling and I think my nervous system is finally calming down. My friends are going on apps and dates and I think they are really brave. I have had some lovely men want to have a relationship with me but due to my ‘training’ I am not settling or going with the ‘flow’ with anyone who doesn’t feel right. Because at 57 I have been very guilty of ignoring my own needs and wants and am determined not to let this happen and loose myself again. You sir are a lovely, handsome man who has done lots of ‘work’ and I wish you all the very best with your future xx
2026-08-03 06:25:56
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Bev :
I think as we get older the fear gets worse ❤️. We find an inner peace we're frightened to share, in case it becomes disrupted again 😕
2026-08-03 16:10:21
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sam_always29 :
Been single for 7 years and i thought ive done my healing and understanding myself! Started talking to the guy who seemed to be consistent, kind and caring… totally freaked out as didnt know how to deal with someone who is not a dushbag! 😳😳😳
2026-08-02 18:24:23
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tracey :
It’s not fear I am happy with myself life but we all deserve to find love our own happy ever after . But life is to short to chase after something that might not happen enjoy life and cherish every day as one day it will all be our last
2026-08-02 22:21:34
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Laura’sworld :
Added me now msging me
2026-08-02 18:19:45
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ju💋❤️ :
I'd love to have a long conversation on this ..but it's to long to type out ...if you are questioning if your ready or not ...is it a sign you're not quite ready..or ready? only you are holding yourself back...but think are you truly happy on your own and has it made you stronger...I say go for it you only live once...red flags you will see straight off you can walk away without being hurt...you will pick a few weeds before you find your flower
2026-08-02 18:36:38
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Gabriela Teodora :
Well the triggers will still appear, its just about how you deal with them after all this time.
2026-08-02 19:18:55
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Becky Norman :
We all think we are healed until we have to face our triggers! I think I’m ready and then immediately step back. But I reckon what’s meant for you won’t miss you! The right person will just feel right and not set your spidey senses off as hopefully they’ve done the work too. 🤷♀️
2026-08-03 01:05:47
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Clare Brockbank :
in same placex
2026-08-04 14:05:07
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lyndon :
mate im terrified 😳
2026-08-02 18:16:52
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H0neybun :
I’ve taken 2 yrs out of not dating as I’m afraid of the same .. so very similar to you afraid of being cheated on etc … 🥰
2026-08-04 19:42:56
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amanda :
a milion percent. its to scary. be cause we know finding it out their is rare x
2026-08-03 07:26:43
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Emoz :
My fears are far too many to list here. How long have you got? 😊
2026-08-02 21:34:58
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One Fun Dun :
personally I dont have a time scale ...i think I will know when I know if yiu know what I mean lol xxx
2026-08-02 22:00:27
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dee :
be honest like you are and you ll be loved for who you are 😊 do it ✨️its finding someone you feel comfortable and open with and easy to talk to, it is scary but do it! ha ha thats me saying this easy to give advice hey 🤣 my fear is trusting someone to love me as much as I love them. its the fear of being vulnerable hey! its scary but like you say its missing out on something that could be special. 😊
2026-08-02 18:31:05
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caztheaker :
I feel you on this one . I think or should I say over think . iv done all the work finding me but that fear is still there. iv finely met someone I like so taking it slowly and may let that fear of letting my guard down slowly..
2026-08-04 05:16:47
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zo :
The fear, the unknown, can stop us from progressing and fully giving ourselves because if we trust again and it fails, we are going to feel that pain again. But by protecting ourselves we’ll never get that chance of feeling that happiness and love that a partner could give.
2026-08-02 20:34:32
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Jo Louise :
Summed me up as well - Just be open to meeting someone but not necessarily looking.
2026-08-02 19:04:36
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michellehutch :
When the right person comes along you will know when your ready.
2026-08-02 19:12:14
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