@kristen1942: Please get better at observing your own thoughts and feelings #fyp #women #patriarchy #men

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qweenmuther
QweenMuther :
I drive a Ram 2500 Powerwagon, it's a big truck and I'm a small person. I get alot of strange looks from men. As I got out one day running errands a man said to me how nice my husband was to lend me his truck. To which I replied, there is no husband, and he looked almost disgusted. There are no end to the assumptions!
2026-08-21 11:35:42
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lindimichelle
Lindi Michelle 🇦🇺 🇺🇸 :
Imagine seeing someone carrying groceries and thinking ‘she needs a man’ instead of ‘she needs a hand.’ the programming is so deep and ppl who think this way are unsafe
2026-08-03 05:49:01
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forbess999
Diane :
Lol! I asked my husband if he could come and pick me up after work because it was already getting dark and I was on a bicycle and he came but he said “ I hope you know this is your birthday present”. Men Ive had high regard for have let me down again , again again . I dont want to depend on a man for anything anymore. The cost is too high.
2026-08-02 22:37:51
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da..fluffy.pepe
da. Fluffy Pepe :
The fact that they feel then need to “fix” a problem that does not exist with ANOTHER problem😂😂😂
2026-08-02 21:01:58
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starryeyedmoonchild
🧶🌙 𝕾𝖆𝖗𝖆𝖍 🌿✨ :
I can do hard things alone. I did it all while married and single. The single life has been easier.
2026-08-02 22:03:45
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beingtrueself
OnaJourney :
I recently bought a house for myself and my daughters, as a single woman, 8 years post divorce. More than one male contractor I’ve met with for estimates on home repairs has asked me, “Where’s your husband?” My response has been, “I’m the decision-maker you need to focus on.”
2026-08-03 12:34:08
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nicolle.ellocin
nicolle.ellocin :
My ex-husband moved out and the only thing that changed is I now have to mow the lawn a few times a year.
2026-08-03 13:53:47
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novacane_9272
Sebastian :
Kristen I would really appreciate it if you stop spreading misinformation and pseudoscience in most of your videos, just like in this one, thanks have a great day.
2026-08-03 09:00:41
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melinasartwork
melinasartwork :
This reminds me of when I went to a comedy show alone intentionally. I was sat at a table with a straight older couple and the man approached the table and told me “why are you alone? Are you okay?” I looked at him & said nothing. They were immediately uncomfortable. 😊
2026-08-03 00:29:08
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holisticskincoach
Julie Longyear :
I wish you could have shown them all the videos of women carrying EVERYTHING while the men carry nothing. The man would not be helping.
2026-08-02 22:55:28
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feralfitz
Feral :
I find it so bizarre that people don’t examine themselves and course correct. It’s a constant thing for me.
2026-08-02 22:32:22
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dadderson
Daddy :
I love how they hit you with a "could", rather than offering to help you. what I'm loving lately is the is-ought fallacy. when people say "should" or "shouldn't", it's literally a logic error.
2026-08-02 23:29:21
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calimilesmusic
Cali Miles :
‘You sure could use a man’ is a wild thing to say to a stranger! I truly hope they did examine what they said after afterwards! 😅
2026-08-02 22:12:23
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brajukaolcom
Mel G :
But they operate on the old construction and system though. It's like an old computer. It only has the old capabilities and will never handle new software installed into it. I would have said "In the great words of Cher, who needs a man. I AM THE MAN!" and walked away. 🤣
2026-08-03 10:11:21
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maggieinspades
Mags :
"Like I had a d**k growing out of my forhead. " 😂😂😂 Kristin, I love you.
2026-08-03 01:27:29
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spoofyblonde
Sharon Humphreys170 :
Patriarchy needs to shamelessly self promote…..instead of silently give in good will with no accolades….no reward/no action
2026-08-03 05:30:24
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cheryl.mccrystal
Cheryl McCrystal :
I’m finding it harder and harder to be around people that haven’t done the work (self reflection, growth, learning, deconstructing, etc)
2026-08-03 00:27:47
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dingo8mybb
Calling Out the Patriarchy :
I liked your response tho
2026-08-02 21:45:16
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moneyhoney9999
$MoneyHoney$ :
I've raised 3 children by myself, I sure as hell would not be asking no man for help...with anything.
2026-08-02 23:52:53
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kitsune7197
Zumba with Sharon :
This is the best post I had the honor of hearing today and should go viral!
2026-08-02 20:56:02
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boris968.gmail.com
Bobby444 :
if I see a lady alone, carrying a big bag of groceries, my first thought is to move away in respect and let her pass, she doesn't need my help if she doesn't ask, and saying anything other than "good day to you" is bothering her when she obviously doesn't want that...
2026-08-02 21:27:09
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unclemagnus1
unclemagnus1 :
My first impulse would be to ask you if you wanted help. Many years ago I was at the grocery store. A mom with three under 3 years of age was struggling during check out. She was in tears and handed me her baby. I walked her out and loaded her groceries. This was well before I became a parent. I see struggle and I generally offer. Never do I act without consent. We need one another.
2026-08-03 23:00:14
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mollylund4
mollylund4 :
Unfortunately, I feel that the majority of men fall under this category of lack of self reflection or even awareness! Yet, I don’t think that same couple would say the same to a man… they’d probably comment how strong he is! 😞
2026-08-03 13:54:54
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melmeyer998
Melinda M :
I can’t help but state the obvious, that there WAS a man standing right there who chose to make a snide comment as opposed to making himself useful.
2026-08-06 12:34:42
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