@auntberlaney: Also IM SICK of people in relationships saying “you have friends you’re not alone” or “your person will come.” I’m sick of people saying “well just leave the house more” as if I don’t leave the house literally everyday. I’m sick of people acting like friendships can cure romantic loneliness. I’m sick of people saying “oh it’s not that great to be in relationship”. If you have someone, THIS IS NOT A PLACE FOR YOU TO GIVE ADVICE OR MAKE COMMENTS. #single #singlelife #relationships #lonliness #relationshipgoals
it's overrated hun. marriage, relationships, it's all overrated.
2026-08-09 17:04:43
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hails_316 :
I don’t cope I just cry and pretend it doesn’t matter
2026-08-03 01:26:27
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Josh :
Tiktok really said for YOU page tonight huh?
2026-08-03 03:16:49
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Lia :
Hey so daydreaming makes it worse
2026-08-09 16:22:00
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Zibnaf :
serious recommendation: grow your hair long and it will change.
2026-08-09 13:25:25
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Anditheegirl :
This is going to sound condescending but I promise it’s not. As someone who was exactly where you are, you have to get so so so interested in yourself. You have to get so busy figuring out what you want out of life and dive head first in to trying so many new things so you can figure out what you don’t and what you do like. The universe LOVES irony. They trick is to get so busy that you forget you’re lonely because you’re going places and meeting people and the second you decide you don’t have time for a relationship the perfect one will fall in your lap. The universe loves a good chuckle. Go adventuring. Doesn’t have to be expensive you just need to be brave enough to do it alone. For now.
2026-08-08 23:44:02
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Islandbirdgal 🇨🇦 :
I’m almost 43, I still feel like this. “I’m not alone, but I’m lonely”
2026-08-09 16:34:22
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Evth :
choose yourself first. Other people are more likely to fall in love with you if you are in love with yourself
2026-08-09 19:24:02
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Lucy :
at this point I honestly think I should focus on therapy and accepting that not everyone gets this kind of thing, I guess some of us are just meant to be alone, me included, unfortunately and as gut wrenching it is. humans long for love and connection but where do we draw the line on searching? it’s tiring, it gets to a point where looking for something we cannot find is way more hurtful than accepting and finding peace in things the way they are. all of this to say unfortunately I feel you, you’re not alone, I wish you the best girly I hope you do find what your soul craves 🫶🏻
2026-08-09 20:52:23
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craigweatherford99 :
Guarantee there was a single point where someone put you first - but they were not YOUR first choice.
2026-08-09 10:39:36
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Carol ♾️ :
I saw a video a few months ago where the person says "it's ok wanting to have a partner. cause if someone says they don't have friends and they want one, we'd all be sympathetic. the same goes for having a partner. the space in your life for a partner is not the same for friendships". it sticked with me since
2026-08-09 19:18:21
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Shannamaka :
I bet your DM's a FLOODED after dropping this TOK.
2026-08-09 07:01:39
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Melanie Parisi :
girl, I feel you. I'm never chosen. whether it's by a guy (not a big issue for me), by my friends or even by my family. everywhere I go, people always leave me out or never actually come talk to me unless they need me. it hurts
2026-08-09 19:14:18
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Fatimah :
Being chosen by a man is so overrated.. you're way smarter nicer cleaner wiser depper and probably wealthier.
2026-08-09 19:25:39
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Ryan 🇨🇦 :
Same… I wish someone wanted to date me.
2026-08-09 10:12:11
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_____@ :
"It will happen when you least expect it." girl, I haven't expected anything from anyone since I was a child... 🙄
2026-08-09 13:08:47
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空気モンスター :
In my experience this has two reasons:
1. Men do come up to you but only men you would "settle" for. That's guys you want don't pay you attention because competition for those men is insane. In short your standards are too high.
2. You were too focused on finding the right one you forgot to become the right one for others
2026-08-09 17:41:37
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I’m him :
For 21 years of my life I’ve never really had friends. I start conversations with people and invite them out but if I’m not the one asking nobody ever reaches out to me. As for love I’m 200% the one at fault. I always convince myself to take the first step but I never do because I’m scared of rejection. Life is hard but I still believe that one day I’ll be someone’s first choice.
2026-08-09 22:11:40
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J :
I have cried over this for years. You are not alone with this pain!
2026-08-03 03:43:27
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Sam Sandler :
I’ve never felt so seen from feeling alone
2026-08-02 23:09:47
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M_1980 :
Anyone attacking you for this very human and relatable level of vulnerability is a villain. Thank you for sharing your experience in an authentic way.
2026-08-04 17:33:03
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Arcaina :
I promise you it’s because they settle
2026-08-03 09:36:32
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Jessie :
Starting to feel like last picked in dodge ball.
2026-08-03 14:49:53
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RastaReign :
It’s just me and my garden I gave up long ago
2026-08-04 10:36:35
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M :
I get male attention but it’s never for anything serious and once they find someone better they leave
2026-08-03 04:04:56
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