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Calypsoda :
Somehow the saddest part to this to me is writing like you’ll die far before them, fuck that.. You deserve to know what life is like without people like that in it, I hope you live long enough to be in charge of your own headstone.
2026-08-02 23:16:28
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E :
This so beautiful to read, especially as a queer person and I wish you the best in the future 💗
2026-08-02 22:23:35
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Louis'AltAcc :
This is kind of why I dislike when people say "little girls just reject femininity because it's hated but when they heal as women they will reconnect with it and love pink!". I understand it's the case for some but it's not the case for me and for a lot of AFAB people, and is just regressive while trying to be feminist.
2026-08-02 23:43:24
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🎧👁️★†Koolie†★👁️🎧 :
Yooo I ain't come out yet so I'm still struggling like in the first part but I hope things get better and better for you 💖
2026-08-03 05:16:38
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⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀nex :
this is so powerful and relatable, thank you for making this. it makes me happy knowing im not alone
2026-08-03 05:14:59
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venus :
hope as a new generation we can provide the homes and families we needed. where love is not because of who you are or what you are but because you are you.
2026-08-03 05:18:11
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soleil`~•°.*🌊🪸🌻 :
my whole family is religious from my great grandma to younger generations I'm quite literally THE only queer person and I feel so guilty thinking about it
2026-08-03 00:08:18
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Nalmony :
stop I'm genuinely so confused about my gender rn this is making it worse 😭
2026-08-03 05:11:26
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🎀=^sos (2763 kisser)^=🎀 :
My parents ended up finding out I was genderqueer by reading my messages with people online before i had the courage to tell them, and yet they still don't acknowledge what they learned. Whenever it comes up in conversation they always tell me that I just, "don't know the benefits of being a girl yet," but I know who I am. I wish I had the confidence to correct the others close to me, but it like if my family doesn't care how I feel, why would anyone else?
2026-08-03 03:24:27
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𝖇𝖊𝖆𝖘𝖙 :
first time someone used the ‘they’ part of my she/they i almost cried
2026-08-03 04:55:39
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bug * ! :
thank you for this. i have a really hard time explaining my 'nothing' to people. i don't really understand it entirely myself, i just know i'm... not. i have things i'd prefer, ways i could feel better but simply can't do.. but whether i can or can't, why cannot i not simply be? i'll forever lack a group of friends, it's just not in my cards, but i yearn for a space to simply be "it". to just be. be me.
2026-08-03 01:20:18
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𝙰𝚕𝚎𝚓𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚛𝚘 🦇 :
It made me cry; I really relate to it.
2026-08-03 04:23:08
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v3nstars • caesap :
This is a beautiful piece. Thank you for sharing your experience. This rando on the internet cares and is rooting for you to have a peaceful fulfilling life
2026-08-02 22:55:01
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saffron_says :
you're braver than me. I have not been able to tell my parents about my gender because I could not deal with what you're dealing with. remember the feeling of your friends, know that your family isn't the be all end all. you're not alone and you are seen.
2026-08-02 22:53:09
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luhnalord :
🫂 i feel this… how they will never get it. I was so terrified of coming out because of something my mother said when i was thirteen. my dad, now that im an adult, asked me if i still liked girls. when i mentioned what my mother said, he asked how i still held onto stuff from so many years ago. it’s changed me intrinsically. how can i even think about gender when its like this? i feel seen, here.
2026-08-02 23:17:10
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Pierrot'stherianwife :
ur feelings are so valid fam
2026-08-02 23:51:29
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Nicholas :
this is so relatable and im sorry u went through that ❤️many wishes for a more progressive future for tou 😁
2026-08-02 22:20:25
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ꪆৎAʅʅҽɳ˖ᐟ :
oh my lord I'm identified. I've lived always with my mom and brother, it's a lot of things that involve very dark topics, they're good, they're the best I could ask for and I'm happy because of them, but it pains my heart every time I hear them remark to me they will always see me as their sweet little girl. they're not homophobic, my mom just says she "isn't interested in knowing more about the topic" but she doesn't mind gay nor lesbians, even if she's a bit dense with it and most of the times just cuts the whole terms to just those two...And my brother I believe he's heteroflexible, I am very comfortable with them. but it's just I don't really feel like what they look at. Mom insists I have to see a psychologist just to be sure I know what I am and I have decided that for myself and that it isn't response to my trauma. but I'm sure I know what I am, I can't help to get excited every time she calls me by a he on accident, because she usually messes up when referring either to my brother or myself... Lately I think she's trying to connect with the idea. but I prefer not to get any ideas. unlike my father who's clearly homophobic, but it's not like I have a good relationship with him. I could tell more about myself, about the things that went through my journey, but this is merely another comment in a section. have a nice day, at whatever time it is.
2026-08-03 02:30:10
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Eddie🌈♾️(Takara's version) :
hey, I cried so hard after reading this, because my experience has been the exact same. Recently, my mother realised (by herself) that I am trans, we didn't speak it throughly because I know that she doesn't like it, even though she hasn't said anything bad about it, I know that she is dissapointed. I thought I didn't care, but there's a reason behind why I haven't told her myself even after years of coming out to other people, not that she would get mad, she always gets mad, but the dissapointed, the loud sigh while holding her head and not wanting to talk about it, I realised through this video, that I do care, that it hurts, it hurts knowing I will never be more than a woman to her eyes, no more that a little rebel, at my nineteen years, a little rebel. I've been through this same situation with close friends, and my siblings, I tried to explain the pain, the sadness, they say they understand, but stop caring in a week. I don't want to explain who I am, I just want to be, I don't understand why I have to follow what they want me to be, and stand it when they get mad if I don't. I hate it, I know who I am, but I hate the perception people have over me, the gender roles that came with my breasts, the lingering pain everytime someone says my deadname, and more than anything, I hate that the love that my own family has towards me It's not strong enough to respect me, I hate it. I honestly wish that both you and I, and every other person living this, may one day find peace and be around people who love them enough to respect them.
2026-08-03 03:05:43
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୧ ‧₊˚ 🍵 ⋅Mikaiੈ✩‧₊˚ :
No one knows how much slide 12 resonates with me because my family is exactly what that slide is. Okay with gay and bi but as soon as trans (which i am) is in the picture then its wrong
2026-08-03 04:31:19
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alic! :
oof, fyp really said For You today, huh? slide 13 hits me the hardest with the moms comments. i came out to my parents around 4 years ago, i was 15 post pandemic, had known for a year ish that i wasnt cis and my mother asked those same questions like i was commiting a crime. looking back at some moments, i shouldve known they wouldnt react well giving my mother was so reluctant on me cutting my hair Super short at 13 and my dad reacting like i just shot him when i showed him my haircut its funny, my mother may not be the most understanding of queerness as a whole but shes somewhat respectful, and my father doesnt really care all that much. but when its Me then Thats when they care and have an issue with it, with me being gifted a binder by my best friend, with me wanting to go on T to get a bit of facial hair and a deeper voice and an altered genitalia, with me wanting to at Least get a chest reduction, with me cutting my hair shorter and shorter, with my own chosen fucking name im 21 now, still living with them and still living in my feminine cocoon. i cant wait to live with my partner and change completely
2026-08-03 02:22:35
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