Omg thisss is what i notice and feel like. He is comfortable and like a relationship with me. But i dont feel seen, heard, loved, taken serious, he is low effort. He is “fine”. The relationship is “fine”. But it never feels right.
2026-08-15 16:19:41
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selfi :
Unfortunately 10 years and counting
2026-08-15 17:16:42
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user1420283577302 :
Omg this is my life . We’ve been married 21 years and this just hit me so hard
2026-08-15 21:29:17
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SimplySophie :
Divorced that man last year. He was comfortable but did not love me anymore 😳 so i left. Horrible but what example do i set for my kids, to stay with someone who does not love me. Still broken but will get there
2026-08-15 14:15:17
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Davidess Official :
I am stuck in a marriage with a comfortable man and when I connected with Jesus I spiritually outgrown him and he called me a different person and wants me to act like I use to b fire Jesus and I can’t do that
2026-08-16 22:37:56
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Adequate :
I'm confused because he's both.😳
2026-08-17 19:28:53
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🇬🇮Charm_Amina🇲🇦_52 :
unfortunately many of us are living this
2026-08-11 14:51:05
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SweetF :
This is deep and so true
2026-08-17 01:45:13
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katie Diamond 🇳🇬 :
Sadly that’s the situation of most relationships.
2026-08-17 17:04:13
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Kyla Fraser :
That's scary actually.. 😢🌹
2026-08-12 20:19:45
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Yuliia🇪🇬 :
the one who loves will care about you, the one who is comfortable with you will use you till your end
2026-08-04 10:57:20
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🦋Queen Nambi 👸🏼 :
This is extremely confusing… am out of here 🤔🤔🤔…
2026-08-17 22:00:28
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Meowrunwild :
Love is intentional. Comfort is convenient.
2026-08-03 12:44:30
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maryam cassim :
get rid of him
he is boring too
go for the man who makes your life better
2026-08-09 14:42:39
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ThatGirlsMom2026 :
I wasted nearly 8 years in a dead end situationship.
2026-08-03 23:22:48
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Sari :
I rather have this... Then never have anything at all...
2026-08-12 03:14:57
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laurajagnarine :
Sir that is 💯% true.I am in a relationship.16 years,and it is not love.I was wondering what it was..but you couldn't explain it better, because he is there and I am also right here.
2026-08-17 12:38:44
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Promatsane :
Was always wondering what kind of a relationship am I in.. finally understand better now🥺
2026-08-17 16:20:10
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sheilz💡 :
This sounds so familiar 🥺 I know the script.
2026-08-17 07:54:21
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Gemma Roberts :
this is exactly what my last relationship was like but since we split up hes now trying to be the man I always wanted now im more confused than ever 😕
2026-08-17 14:33:49
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