@justaskjefferson: Narcissists always do this.

mytimeout :

This started the minute you got married! It’s too late now to play the good cop bad cop scenario.

Sebastian Pardo :

I almost never opened The Tlmeless Principles of Life by Aaron Frledman and honestly that thought alone stresses me out now.

kimdeanne01 :

💯. So exhausting being with a narcissist. Learning how to do these things helps you stay regulated and takes away their control, however, you will never have true peace as long as you keep them close to you.

Wendy MacLeod :

I had to deal with one for so long and one day I just walked away...he lost his mind chased me yelling get back here. nope I don't have to be treated like this or put up with you. I knew I had stopped the situation cold

Ari :

I agree. They fed on chaotics

schatzi_darling1111 :

They are disregulated personified - they delight in your disregulatuon, cause it makes them feel like they are normal - learn Attachment Theory and learn how they know which buttons to push

Ashiraf :

his advice always works for me

MamaDre@ :

My mother and stepfather !!! So sad !

☮️ :

Do. Not. Engage.

Grilletovalles3 :

The best sword 🗡️is silent 🤫

🇨🇦 She the North 🇨🇦 :

But they drag in my kids. My 2yr old was sick for a week with GI. They ask me… “can she have a cookie” I say “thank you but she’s been sick all week so I don’t think today would be good.” They walk into the house, bring out a cookie the size of her whole face and give it to her behind my chair. I notice and have to take the cookie. They blame a hearing problem and that I am a terrible person with too many rules. I cannot be still, silent or do nothing when rules that are in place for my children’s health or safety are being very intentionally, publicly, broken. But every single person said I was the bad guy… when I took the cookie and said “I told you she has been sick and can’t have a cookie today”. Later they called my husband and told him he better make sure I never do that again or I will be asked to leave.

Jas :

It always turns into I’m the one who doesn’t know how to have a conversation. But once I speak it turns into I’m acting like a victim

Phatnaree Sakunwangkaona :

So true

wens_GO :

This advice has helped me so much, and it has given me a lot of clarity too. Thank you.

Maney :

this is so true and so sick 😢

Greeneyes :

They bloody do!

Theta Mind :

do not take the bait

Maria ma :

Suzzz :

Provoke! Yes!!!! Once I found this behavior out, I said stop and get out of my space! I know what you are doing! Take control! 💯. In control!

Chelsea Nguyen :

Sooo true

disco.pickle :

I wish that there was more information on how to co-parent with one, especially when they have more control over the child's well being. We should be talking about how they use the children as weapons & abuse them in the process

Jules Garner :

This is the guy I was talking about.

Deadra -cancer survivor :

Facts. It infuriated him bc I learned to be silent and just look at him. ☺️

Andrea :

Funny thing, I rage and become aggressive and at the end I dont apologise

Earf Deep :

I swear I followed you back when these were coming from the front seat