@monicaumunna: Your husband is not your girlfriend… and that’s not a bad thing!! We’ve been taught to expect men to communicate, process, and respond exactly like women do. But God didn’t create men and women to be identical. He created us with equal value and different design. This isn’t about excusing a husband who is unloving, immature, or unwilling to grow. Husbands are called to love their wives sacrificially (Ephesians 5:25). But difference isn’t deficiency. Maybe instead of asking, “Why isn’t he more like me?” we should ask, “How can I better understand and appreciate the way God created him?” Marriage gets stronger when we stop trying to make each other into a different person and start learning to love each other well 🙏🏼🫶🏼🙌🏼

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ntgm824
DaddyCool :
Actually it’s more respectful for the women to put down the toilet seat cause a man has to put up the toilet seat and put it back down that is 2 actions .. where as the women only has to put it down
2026-09-21 06:11:00
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woke_hestu
Hestu :
Women want men to communicate but they don’t want to hear what men have to say
2026-08-04 12:39:05
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whatisthatvelvet
Velvet Jones :
yall waking up slowly but surely
2026-08-03 20:33:55
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jeremiahsmith096
Uncbegaming32 :
Most women do not know about men they learn about men from other women, not other men
2026-08-03 20:13:13
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ericsosborne
Eric S. Osborne :
not a lot of women are going to want to hear this
2026-08-03 21:30:12
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reallyarcher
ARCHERTECTURE :
Podcast equipment on me
2026-08-04 23:07:16
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bolu.rachel
Boluwatife 💗 :
They’re not our everything - God is
2026-09-20 14:31:00
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garnet022
Momomomomom :
So what’s the biblical reason they can’t put the toilet seat down?
2026-08-03 21:31:01
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johnnyroc
Johnny Roc :
Therapy culture and social media have damaged women more than anything or anyone.
2026-08-05 04:17:49
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kristianell
Kristian :
You lost me at god. Otherwise spot on
2026-08-10 14:30:55
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natlajune
natlajune.com :
Men and women weren’t meant to be so vastly different. We were conditioned to be, largely by the Bible. When we put the Bible down and get people together we find we’re really not that different. It’s not “being like a woman” for a man to be emotionally healthy. He’s just emotionally healthy.
2026-08-03 18:10:27
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grisel_155
C A R O L I N E :
That’s why a lot women are single too
2026-08-04 17:29:27
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hausfraudhomestead
Faith In Nature :
Not just a woman. Several women. We're expecting our men to be our whole village.
2026-08-03 15:33:16
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colton.thies
Colton Thies :
If I communicated everything to my woman, she’d be overwhelmed and emotionally catatonic.
2026-08-05 16:32:10
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unclezachy
BeardedBaby :
you lost me at "god created".
2026-08-10 10:27:36
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onyekaperry
Ike | Rexeipt :
The funny thing is that even women dont hold God to same standards as men. a woman will pray to an all knowing God and tell him her desires, but would expect her husband to read her mind and know her desires.
2026-08-10 02:48:26
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siddiq0450
Gus :
Am in Africa sorry I can't relate...here men and women know how to exactly be that
2026-08-09 22:30:44
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hisgraceoverflows
his.grace.overflows :
This is a very mature take. Men are not women and I don’t want him to act like me
2026-08-04 05:13:34
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alexmmartel
Alex Martel :
Let’s not forget apparently we have to be a carbon copy of your FATHER too or we’re not a “real man”. No pressure or anything.
2026-08-03 18:32:25
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fictional_is_the_way
Fictional_men_are_the_standard :
It’s not some biological difference. It’s because we raise boys to not pay attention to detail, to not be emotional, to not do mindfulness, to be emotionally stunted. I know plenty of men who “responds like a woman” because he was raised to be interested and to pay attention. Just like I know women who “responds like a man” because of how she was raised. It’s just more common to abide by stupid norms. Hence why women do better in school, mature faster, have their stuff togheter faster. Because it’s how we raise them
2026-08-08 18:09:39
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kobecrusaders
🏀 🏀 :
Communication is key in a relationship until the woman is on the receiving end of the communication
2026-08-05 17:03:17
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mbj.whiteeyes
MBJ GQ :
🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️Not just in marriages, but in LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2026-08-04 08:08:33
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limabeansoul
Cam Cameron :
As a Christian woman in a healthy marriage, I totally see this point, but I think it’s important to clarify characteristics of an emotionally healthy man. Being tender or gentle in approach isn’t feminine. Noticing details is not feminine. Being willing to communicate through issues in a mature and healthy way is not feminine. A man can be strong, a leader, a healthy communicator, and is allowed to be emotional without it being deemed as womanly.
2026-08-04 13:56:07
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