You mean a woman wanting to transport herself on a first date is a deal breaker for you??? Wow, I would consider a huge red flag
2026-08-03 11:21:56
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debRaaahhh :
Your “no” is an indicator of what is not understood about the real threats woman face on first dates, second dates, a month in, a year in, etc. a connection that you mention doesn’t guarantee personal safety. Actually it could be seen as safer for both parties.
2026-08-03 06:26:35
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omachick1 :
That’s ego talking because women know what they need to be comfortable. People can seem one way when talking then different on a date. We know that from experience.
2026-08-03 03:24:42
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chrissyg39 :
It’s not that she’s not good, it’s that she is an independent woman. You are coming from a very controlling place.
2026-08-03 10:52:48
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TrvlngDrew :
You’re being too old school, different times
2026-08-03 03:35:27
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RhondaSimon :
Sounds like a control freak. Big red flag!
2026-08-03 12:59:45
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GramB18 :
Rage bait! lol
2026-08-03 14:56:30
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Mana MB :
You can be with someone for years and still feel uncomfortable. I don’t agree sr
2026-08-03 14:37:34
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MemereK🇨🇦 :
oh please. How does she know you are just a good talker/ player on the phone. You are showing dominance and that's a turn off.
2026-08-03 11:33:37
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Love - LC :
That attitude would definitely make me stay home then. I do not need or want you to pick me up. What is it YOU don't understand?
2026-08-03 09:55:59
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Kathy :
Why can’t she? What are you expecting after the date? You can be a weirdo and just a good talker on phone. I wouldn’t be in someone else’s car that I’m on a first date with.
2026-08-03 11:47:33
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Michele Vergo :
My first date always had to pick me up at my house. My father had to meet them when I was younger.
2026-08-03 08:48:47
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Kristi Lyn :
Never. People can be fake. Safety is always an issue and if you can’t respect her, why do you want to go on a date with her? Why do you want her in your car so bad? That means more than meeting in person?? This is the oddest thing I’ve ever heard…a woman says no and you can’t respect that choice. This is why she wants to meet at the date location.
2026-08-03 02:31:02
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Aleluya :
I agree with you.
2026-08-03 03:09:31
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drkaren :
I would stay home
2026-08-03 08:59:58
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whodawg23 :
Exactly
2026-08-03 14:25:18
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LizzFore :
Meet you there
2026-08-03 02:56:15
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Dorothy@bc :
Drayton, Things have changed. You're comfortable but she's not comfortable. Some guys could seem like nice guys online but she needs to get to know you in person. Let her take an Uber and meet you there. She's taking an Uber anyway and if you hit it off she'll need a ride home👍😁
2026-08-03 04:13:34
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mikebrovo :
Dayton is old school I like me! I have always picked up my dates or it really isn't a date.
2026-08-03 13:58:39
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Miss Cindy :
No
2026-08-03 04:59:13
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Joann Jessome :
I agree 100%
2026-08-03 01:51:47
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Texas kitkat :
Ummm no for me
2026-08-03 13:37:04
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Rebecca 🇵🇸 :
This is frightening.
2026-08-03 12:42:55
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Daniel Ruiz 🐢 :
I feel the same way the woman that didn’t want for me to pick her up ended up still living with her husband/ex husband.
2026-08-03 19:22:14
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