My own wife finds me been committed to her as valueless all because currently she earns 3 times more than me...
It's not consistent as I'm self employed, she even tells me she's the one who makes all things happen (economic aspects) even though I cook, clean, bath our kids, present with my children, cultivate my kids talents, volunteer at charity organizations that reward me once in a blue moon...
I gave her the platform and connection to the place she's currently employed at, she uses a lot of my ideas but still treats me this way, talks down on me when I speak to the children and confirms that she has no example of how to treat me right because she witnessed my sister's & mother disrespecting me constantly
She even told me the other day that she can find a better man than me...
She is constantly telling me that she can live without me because she is too bright to be stopped & I'm a burden to her
Any positive advice & What can I do?
I love my children who are boys dearly, leaving them to grow outside an incomplete family & witness such about me is aching my soul
2026-08-07 20:41:24
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Leonard Simfukwe :
money is life cc how can u live without money can u stay where there is no money
2026-08-08 10:33:34
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Jane the Queen :
l love to be given the cheapest thing
2026-08-07 14:26:28
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Lin :
The most expensive thing a man can give you is commitment 💯
2026-08-03 16:42:43
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msshay888 :
Give me that money my love
2026-08-03 08:03:19
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MamaSaby :
commitment without loyalty is still cheap
2026-08-03 18:26:48
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sportperson :
Inkinga balambile ngeke bakuzwe
2026-08-03 22:03:51
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velvet🦁📿 :
That cheapest thing from him funded my MBA☺️😊
2026-08-07 18:02:26
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Hermajesty🤍. :
The women in the comment section who are willing to sacrifice their health, integrity and emotional wellbeing for materialistic stuff and money? A daily dose of hard work and self love can save you from a lot hey🤝❤️
2026-08-04 12:34:15
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barbie :
That's all we want from him, commitment a e fe Mosali'ahae,not me
2026-08-06 16:41:24
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Lunghi :
don't expose us please, u shouldn't have told them😎
2026-08-08 08:03:17
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Vukosi M :
Money is misinterpreted as love, you are on point
2026-08-03 07:36:22
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Ace - The Bassoonist :
Comment section ayifun nova 😂😂😂😂😂😂
2026-08-03 16:23:16
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Gipssy Khosa :
Takes the deeper maturity to understand what you are saying my sister, only few will understand ur point.
2026-08-03 12:49:02
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Ann :
I want that cheapest thing to buy expensive stuff yoh 😫
2026-08-04 03:41:03
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MaLanga❤️ :
manje sisthi asiyifuni?😫😫🤷♀️umuntu makahlale ne commitment yakhe shame..worse its like trust it can be broken anytime money cant be reversed 👍
2026-08-03 20:08:27
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just_buckss :
Kanti nifunani 😭😭😭😭Bantu benkosi
2026-08-03 16:03:20
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Nomaswazi Akhidenor 🇿🇦🇳🇬 :
I agree, money is nice but having a man who is committed to you is everything.
2026-08-03 18:16:38
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Martin Nkululeko Cele :
bayadayisa ngeke bakuzwe, uwisa I business labo
2026-08-04 18:41:00
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icebunny :
that's what I always say,am too expensive coz money from a man doesn't move me,I want loyalty, respect, love, commitment
2026-08-03 16:54:21
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Smangaliso :
Bathi ama feelings ayaphela uma benganikezwa imali nje
2026-08-04 16:54:26
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kapi :
it's not cheapest but expensive
2026-08-03 13:01:50
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Bosso Ya Basadi 👑 :
Manje what are we going to do with commitment?? Ayyy ngeke
2026-08-03 12:09:10
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