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lisa rose :

how do you control it guys any tipps?

Sans me :

That’s so fucking RIGHT….. I HATE that in ME!!!!!

JHA_07 ⟭⟬⁷ :

Yep and I will make sure that that can never happen to me again cause no way im letting myself feel that way bc of someone who doesnt even try to care 🤷🏼‍♀️

Andreas :

What Can I do

Emsss :

We hate anxious attachment.

Kent🏳️‍🌈 :

that's me, attachment issue

Jordan James Jacobs :

look I'm an overthinker anxious attachment and empathy. I value honesty no matter the cost as an anxious attachment if I am asking you something it's not to blame or accuse you it's because I sense something is off and I'm there to help if you are short answer and tone delivery doesn't align I'll ask again so it reassured you I want to help I feel your emotions. and carrys the negative aura in the room if I ask a second time and still same I'm fine but comes across more angry I will ask if it's something I have done just incase so I can validate and if you say nothing to do with me. please don't take whatever is going on on us. I feel the energy the mask the expression analyse every interaction if I can't resolve the tension air I don't want to be around it's overwhelming and unsafe. I overthink when I overthink I think about both parties and try make excuses for them if they aren't sure just to get a temp relief we don't want to bombard with emotions but we will suggest that you might take the first thing in the wrong way. structure of my text. is everything okay.(what to help the issue ) is the issue me if so let's talk this through 2nd paragraph will analyse that there's too much detail so we explain more depth and pressure and the 3 paragraphs will be if your answer or response is slow or ignored we will take it personally that you don't want to sort something out and we can't match your needs so it shows we are giving distance and one final thing but we are not abandoning you.

Big woo💫 :

Overthinking is a disease actually

ian :

what to do?

_chri.p_ :

ok but how do I fix that?

dumpydump :

Please help me i am attached and it really affected my entire mood. To the point I don’t have an appetite or energy to do the things i mostly enjoy before i met him. Idk what to do anymore i have tried not responding to his messages but i still responded at the end of the day

Theegyptiandoll :

This is so accurate

MLJ 🍒 :

That’s why you should have two people texting with

Bree :

Yeah but then I learned how to detach 😎

itz_jst_dan :

The Stoic Pause :

The danger is when someone else’s response becomes the measure of your own peace.

Elizabeth Wojtylo🃏 :

So accurate

Stefanie Smet :

True and I hate that I can not control it

miiiekaa :

This Sounds familiar

marialotiz :

ayoko ng ganito kasi ako lang yong rin yong dahilan kung bakit ako nasasaktan

칼로얀 마린 :

why does i found my self into this words?

𝓜𝓻. 𝓡𝓪𝓭𝓲𝓸 𝓓𝓮𝓶𝓸𝓷 :

That’s me