@livthepositivefooodie: ‘What about me-ism’. I imagine literally every creator ever has experienced this. It’s draining. Why can’t we just show empathy and compassion rather than constantly diminishing other people’s struggles because they’re not ‘bad enough’? #whataboutme #whataboutmeism #fyp #rant #foryou
I thought social media was for sharing your own stories. If you dislike someone’s post, just move on. You don’t have to comment or complain! They don’t need to be so sensitive. 😑🤣
2026-08-03 11:44:47
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mamagoosey22 :
It’s a competition who’s had it the hardest, it’s so annoying 😳
2026-08-03 19:18:45
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katiemarriott3 :
I did a post about losing my husband and the suffering after and somebody commented saying think of the people in Gaza suffering everyday?! 🫣😳
2026-08-03 19:22:25
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K :
People can't comprehend that not every post is for them
2026-08-03 17:14:13
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farmhoose1 :
What about those that can’t afford internet and can’t post negative replies?
2026-08-03 14:52:25
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Katie :
Everyone has a victim complex these days! I told someone I was going on holiday and their response was “lucky you I haven’t been away in 8 years” … like as if I’d won the holiday and not worked and paid for it?! 😅
2026-08-05 16:19:46
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sarah.w89 :
People just love bragging about how miserable they are
2026-08-03 11:17:36
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Ashleigh McNab ❤️ :
You aren’t allowed to breathe on the internet anymore it’s ridiculous!! It’s always a competition and I don’t get why? 😂 xxxx
2026-08-03 13:05:05
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fuall :
some people are just ragebaiters, they can't help themsleves
2026-08-03 11:22:23
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Lys🖤 :
‘I’m sad I only have one arm’ ‘Well you should be grateful, some people have NO ARMS’ - says the person with 2 arms!!!!!!
2026-08-12 13:10:09
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Anakins mama :
Excuse me, how dare you love your 2 bed terrace more than I love mine!! 😂
2026-08-03 13:30:48
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ntr2604 :
Comparative suffering / Pain Olympics ….. it’s tedious the world allows two people to experience pain / distress / loss / sadness at the same time. Someone’s own circumstances does not negate that of another. A stark example is when your train comes to a stop for three hours because of another persons tragic actions in front of that train and you miss your flight to your holiday. You’re still perfectly reasonable in being very upset about that.
2026-08-03 17:19:18
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Alana Horrigan :
honestly some people just want everyone to be as miserable as them
2026-08-03 20:38:19
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actuallygeorgia :
I loved that post of yours, it’s really inspired me and my partner to stop referring to our house as our “starter house” and we’ve fallen in love with it all over again! The thought of leaving it in the future makes us so sad! We’d rather have a smaller mortgage and travel!
2026-09-27 14:01:29
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Corrynation :
Classic Bean Soup theory. I’m a bit bored of performative virtue signalling. You’re absolutely right to be able to tell your journey and what you’ve learned. People 🤦♂️
2026-08-04 08:29:21
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Peggy :
Some people just love to be negative. They believe they are being noble but really, they just come across as a bit of a twat. Good luck to you, you’re doing great x
2026-08-09 08:01:20
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gracie :
If you’ve been to Tenerife theyve been to elevenerife x
2026-08-16 12:10:18
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katyb_ :
Misery loves company girl.
2026-08-04 14:20:12
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Lucy B x :
Oh my god it’s bloody tiresome!!!!! Nobody is happy for others anymore and it’s so exhausting 😂😂 you could say your leg fell off and everyone would start screaming BUT WHAT ABOUT PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN DECAPITATED EH
2026-08-12 06:11:43
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Kelly :
Well said!! Everyone is different and has DIFFERENT circumstances and that doesn’t mean because you had family to go back to it wasn’t hard. I loved the post as someone who has also made the decision to stay in the home we have and prioritise living, saving and over paying our mortgage rather than stretching our income just to look like we have a certain way of life that social media makes you feel like you should have. We need more of this!!!!
2026-08-03 14:38:40
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Staceyrc86 :
I follow you on insta too, and I seen that post and those comments this morning. You dont owe anyone an explanation, I like you have a 2 up 2 down small house and like you said you become conditioned to wanting bigger and what you perceive as better. I commend you, you have made a beautiful home, your decor is beautiful, its seems a proper content cosy vibe. I hope you enjoy every bit of your house along with every holiday, weekend away, night out, fancy meals and treats for yourself. Please keep these posts coming as its making me fall back in love with my home and my little life too Xx
2026-08-03 19:11:55
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ClaireF 🌶️ :
Love this…but on another note, what are you using on your face…you look so glowy 🥰
2026-08-03 11:53:06
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Jen Makeup Artist :
It’s not a competition is it 😆 why don’t they go and post their own story rather than comment on others? So bizarre
2026-08-03 19:14:39
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pjbaker41 :
on a side note - your skin is GLOWING
2026-08-28 11:30:52
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