@stay_at_home_trauma: I wish I had a direct answer like this when my judge asked me this question during my child custody hearing. Instead I just said “I have some safety concerns, and he has been really inconsistent”. I still got primary custody though!! #creatorsearchinsights #custody #childsupport #familycourt #familylaw
How do you document absence? My ex hasn’t seen the kids in nearly 3 years and before that visit it was 2 years. How do I put on paper something that doesn’t exist. My evidence of him not caring is basically a blank page that says “last visit January 2024” and my evidence of him not paying a cent is…my bank statements from the last 5 years? I mean there’s nothing there
2026-08-18 02:00:39
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Alex witchy beyond the scream :
I was raped by my ex had a child from rose. they gave him my kids
2026-08-06 15:47:39
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haleyyy :
Can you help me on what to document while we are still living in the same home?
2026-08-04 20:05:19
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g a b r i e l l e 🦋 :
wow this is exactly what I needed ❤️
2026-08-03 14:11:41
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Poetic_justice :
Family courts don’t care. Judges don’t care about the best interest in your child. The family court system is patriarchal and misogynistic. Family courts especially in Ontario Canada enable and even encourage abuse.
2026-08-05 10:30:45
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Hijadelsol🇺🇸🇲🇽 :
what if the father was never there for 5 years then all of a sudden he turns the tables n now the kids are grown 5 n 7 n now he took custody over dv n now he pretends his perfect father has put them in activities n done so much in one year how can someone fight while been away n he has not allowed me to see them more days then court ordered allowed
2026-08-04 17:37:28
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shakenbake2099 :
y is it alwaya the dad thats bad hmm im the dad fighting for my kids and she is the one that is using them against me and not providing so y always the man
2026-09-14 19:28:03
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Crystal Clear Calling 💖💎 :
Is there a difference between primary and sole? My lawyer put primary but he’s literally in jail and years of substance abuse and felonies.
2026-08-03 20:54:12
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beautybyme_nm :
I need the documents for these! Where do I send my money?
2026-08-05 23:18:50
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jrod00017 :
ai does better
2026-08-04 20:49:24
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🫶🩵 :
heavy on the dv survivor and providing them peace and stability 💜🙏
2026-08-04 21:36:31
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Rosangela ♑️ :
I love your post have learn so much from you
2026-08-04 18:21:12
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lamby1114 :
Who’s I’d have found this earlier xx
2026-08-03 14:46:21
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Life is cool :
Do u talk one on one for some guidance? I feel lost
2026-08-04 00:27:36
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B.Ash :
I wish i could do this- hes a covert narc and has a huge family support system- he picks her up for her just to be thrown with a diff family everytime- with him borrowing a diff vehicle almost everytime!
2026-08-03 16:59:19
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thaguy223 :
Wow, that whole speech basically summed up every detail of my case, I might have to record and memorize this because it’s so close to my reality
2026-08-12 22:15:38
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Brittnie Edmonds :
Girl make ur videos downloadable lol I got court next month! I need this🤣
2026-08-14 00:43:36
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Alejandra Martínez ❤️ :
EXCELLENT INFORMATION!
2026-08-03 14:34:36
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Shannon Schots :
Aint that the truth
2026-08-06 21:48:03
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number1hayter :
ugh I hate that idk how well your advice would help me while I hear you to start the divorce after/ during the active tpo case that I have against my husband rn
2026-08-05 05:58:38
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Wendy M :
I would love if you did a video about summer visitation. For example in my custody case since I live on CA now and dad is in WA our son goes the whole summer. when he comes back my poor son is 10-15lbs over weight. I've been tracking his weight before and after extended visits
2026-08-06 02:59:17
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Ebony :
The fact that I can use so many of the examples you gave is unbelievable
2026-08-04 19:24:59
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rhardy55 :
What about for a situation where father is involved but mother is moving long distance
2026-08-20 03:53:52
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Jessica Lopez :
I lost all my screenshots which were on my other phone, what do you suggest I do 😮💨 this is for sole custody
2026-08-18 23:39:24
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Betty Jean :) :
Thank
2026-09-01 12:44:47
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