@sharingmytruthpod: Dating apps gave us endless options… but are they actually real options? 👀 In an old OkCupid analysis, women rated about 80% of men as below average in attractiveness. 😳 Add endless swiping and the feeling that someone “better” is always next… and suddenly nobody feels good enough @Stirling Cooper is getting us thinking... Did dating apps raise our standards… or completely mess with our perception of attraction? 🔥 #DatingApps #ModernDating #SwipeCulture #DatingAdvice #FYP

MazeTheMal :

Women have always had endless options, their standards just got higher

cokimusfightimusmeridius :

It’s just the Husband Store analogy

Peter & Bailey :

One match in a thousand for a fella blimey not my experience.

Andrew :

I gave up years ago

woody11190 :

so she is saying its not easier to find match getting 30 matches out of 100 compared to guys getting 1 match out of 1000?

DrNotAsEvil :

The women are aiming for the guys in the top 5% who have the pick of the crowd and they reject the men who would happily date then

G33kD@d76 :

it's because they're all matching with the same guys (and those guys aren't wanting to settle down)

Michael Farrell :

Men swipe right to girls they find attractive, not necessarily who they want to enter a relationship with. Girls only match with someone they are attracted to AND would enter a relationship with. That’s the massive difference.

Insaniac :

unless your a top 20% guy on dating app and IRL you're fuckin cooked bro! 🤷

jasonscott8829 :

Women are too busy looking for Superman that they walk straight past Clark Kent

Simon Wheal :

couldn't be arsed I just go to thailand every year 👍

Old Man Club 1979 :

Its been proven that most men viewed in pictures only are subjectively less attractive than they would have been in real life.

user27600702202292 :

As if swipping 1000 times guarantees match with perfect dream woman 😅 instead of an average woman who still may not be mans type by looks or personality

Jay :

Its an endless cycle of "well, there's probably better", regardless of how the first date went or the quality of the partner.

D R :

I would hazard you have more chances to hit a shot with a thousand tries than hitting a shot with none. Both sides of the equation have there own pitfalls but it's a lonely tumbleweeding world on dating apps for the majority of men.

Ghana Khash :

🤣 men always the king

Gavin Flipper :

I only swiped on those I saw that had a common interest/morals. So, not based solely on looks. So, this 1000 right swipes for 1 like is rubbish. Im far from a 10, but did ok. Why would I swipe on a person who is beautiful but I have nothing in common with?

user575307 :

They are not becoming couples because they are all going for the same 10% of guys so these few guys are getting a lot of matches so they don’t take any of them seriously.

Mark :

it's fine to be picky, but women need to remember the golden rule, they choose who they have sex with and men choose who they have relationships with, I wonder if that's the reason women are getting burnt out! and why both are giving up

spider nugent fan club :

abortion clinics are busy

Psychlopic :

dating for men is a desert, dating for women is a swamp

Mari0 :

For women it becomes hard the moment they want husband material, long terms, serious relationship. Because they generally chase the same men who have tons of options and won't settle down. But they still don't like regula, nice guys.

Booba :

dredgen_leon :

I’ve had a total of three matches on dating apps this year alone, two of them weren’t real, and the last one ended up being a hooker….

Larenz-z :

About 95% of the men that a marry do have women if their women was on dating match they wouldn’t even match back with their husbands so the illusion is killing their brain