@gloriaelendu_: The easiest person to become in your imagination is the version of you who never had to make difficult choices. Instead of asking, “Who stopped me?” Perhaps ask, “What am I still able to build from where I am?” Your future is not created by the life you almost had. It is created by the choices you make today. “Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.” Ephesians 5:15–16 (NIV) #PersonalGrowth #Psychology #EmotionalIntelligence #FaithAndWisdom #GloriaElendu
Apologize as how because you married me ? Did I force you to?? Omo
2026-08-07 07:59:30
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Omon special :
I remember years ago. I was still in secondary school so I decided to learn hairdressing after school I told my mom. My mom took me there and I started first 2 weeks nobody came this woman those not have customers. Not even to wash hair then she started blaming me saying it’s was because after I started that she stopped seeing customers. As a child I believe because she never stopped saying it after sometime I left they and went to another place they were lots of customers. Moral lesson when people try to impose their failure on you mention you speak up
2026-08-07 06:34:36
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LuCiFer :
imagination is so sick 😫
2026-08-06 18:56:39
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Angelique_ndt :
Especially for the parents telling this to their children.
2026-08-03 14:07:22
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dannyrants4 :
Nobody is responsible for the outcomes of our lives, the choice is ours.
2026-08-03 15:22:42
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jiggywithafam :
Anytime I am listening to you, I see myself first as the person you’re talking to. I ask myself: am I like this? Have I acted differently lately? You’re precious to this black app. You’re really shaping minds here. Thank you
2026-08-03 17:51:20
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dre :
When you’re with people like this you have two options. Take a break from the marriage for them to pursue that they blame you for must not be a physical break it can be psychological. Example do the cooking go to market do almost everything and leave her to do little then encourage her to make moves to better her life, a procrastinator will always procrastinate even if you serve them success in a platter. Option two divorce.
2026-08-03 14:29:26
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Nerisa Allen :
I say this to myself, whenever I want to feel frustrated, I just reverse it and say, My children are the real reason why I will amount to something great.....
2026-08-06 22:10:52
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syarnom peace :
I didn't see this by mistake
2026-08-05 15:58:36
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AI Automation Specialist :
Ngl, I used to think like this about my kid(I never opened my mouth to tell him though).
I had to consciously caution myself and focus on building from where I am. Pikin don come, I cannot send them backm
2026-08-03 14:16:34
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Modish Mimi Fabrics :
Gratitude should be based on reality not on fictional biography we write after regret
2026-08-03 14:19:50
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Sparky 💕 :
Don’t forget those that blame their children too
2026-08-04 09:32:25
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blessinganabel2 :
Husband: if I have not married you I know where I'd have been
Me: You wey dey collect 50k salary when I met you 🤣🤣🤣🤣
2026-08-03 22:11:42
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Grace❤️ :
My mother always saying if not because she gave birth to me ,she could have been abroad living her best life🥹
2026-08-05 17:42:51
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NWANYIBUIFE👸🏿 :
I love you and the way you can speak through a whole video so eloquently without pauses❤
2026-08-03 15:04:47
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Favour Sorgwe :
when I stayed with my sister, she'd always complain about she would have enough to eat if I wasn't around. I left and never went back. 😁
2026-08-03 15:48:16
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lizzybillons :
Blaming people form your imagination
2026-08-03 14:17:06
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Enam💕🎊 :
There’s a tenant in our house who tells his wife this every time, because all his younger siblings have their own houses. I feel bad for the woman, she’s the one who take care of their home. She’s gone through Four CS, lost two of the children and she lives with blame every day.
2026-08-03 19:15:06
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Odunayo Olajide :
Men are so cruel to women who love them
2026-08-03 19:09:41
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Victoria🎀 :
They do that to make there self feel better🥺
2026-08-04 08:48:11
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Omobolamide🫧🌸💗 :
Hmmmm, I have to talk to myself before considering marriage for real
2026-08-03 15:27:10
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Timilehin :
this goes for some parents too, who claim they have sacrificed for their kids by abandoning their own lives and career.
2026-08-05 10:24:20
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iamdextinie :
How do you move on from someone you have invested in ? Financially and emotionally…. You want to move on but you still care about them…
2026-08-03 14:58:40
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JOY🎀❤️ :
Apart from blaming people, can this Counter factual thinking be applied to environment too?
2026-08-03 14:04:41
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