Nihad Abdulai :
Marriage may not be an achievement to everyone, and that's okay. Everyone is entitled to their opinion.
However, from my perspective, marriage is more than a milestone. In God's design, it is a sacred institution that provides companionship, support, and a rightful place for intimacy. It is not just about avoiding fornication; it is about building a life together.
There are many marriages where husbands have helped their wives become better versions of themselves, and many where wives have done the same for their husbands. When two good people come together with the right values, they can grow faster together than they might have individually. Some couples have built successful businesses, raised strong families, and achieved goals they may not have reached alone.
Yes, there are unhappy marriages, but there are also healthy, thriving ones. We shouldn't define marriage only by its failures. For many people, finding a loving, supportive spouse is a blessing and an achievement worth celebrating.
If marriage is not something you value, that's your choice. But let's not discourage those who desire it or make them feel that pursuing marriage is foolish. Every person's journey is different, and a good marriage can truly change a person's life for the better.
2026-08-04 09:20:04