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Faye :
My ex husband to a T. Did prioritise them when we were married then had an affair with a single mum. Hasn’t seen his daughter since he left 4 yrs ago, and his son stopped wanting to see him 3 yrs ago after he took the affair partner and kids on holiday.
2026-08-04 14:28:07
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Queen Nikki :
Completely agree what your describing is how my daughters dad behaves and I’m the villain it my fault he doesn’t see her
2026-08-05 19:11:02
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✨⚜️ 𝐌𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐫 ⚜️✨ ™ :
I’ve thought about this deeply, and I want to add something from a psychology and real family experience.. I’ve seen and know women in situations where the man told them he wouldn’t accept their children, yet he expected them to accept his.. And that’s when you realise how common this behaviour actually is.. People don’t abandon their kids because they don’t care, they abandon them because of avoidance, guilt, immaturity, and the belief that someone else will pick up the responsibility.. and, it’s not just men who do this, women do this as well.. Many set strict standards and boundaries for other people’s children, but none for their own.. and here’s the family based reality, when families separate, children are usually with the mother… So some fathers convince themselves that their kids are safe, looked after, and don’t need them… It’s not true, but it’s a very common psychological justification… here’s the truth, and it’s simple… if someone can detach from their own children, they can detach from yours too… That behaviour isn’t selective, it’s a pattern.. and children should never be optional, and anyone, who treats them as optional, is showing you exactly who they are. You call this disengagement, a pattern of avoidance and displacement, not a one-off behaviour.
2026-08-04 17:14:26
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🦋 Sophie 🦋 :
My ex moved out and had a new girlfriend 2 weeks after he moved out. Then introduced the kids to her after 2 weeks of being together, even told the kids ‘don’t tell your mum’ I was so
2026-08-04 09:07:58
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clairebear27 :
very refreshing to hear this perspective from a man. my child's other parent done everything you just mentioned & my thoughts on feelings on the situation are exactly like you but I'm made out to be the delusional, irrational one🤷♀️
2026-08-04 15:47:13
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kinzarp :
What can I say? My children chose their mother's new partner—the man she had an affair with—while shutting me out because I had left. Is that fair? I gave everything for them—taught them to swim, ride a bike, and so on. I was never violent or anything like that.
2026-08-04 14:41:08
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Laura Unsworth :
Going through this right now
2026-08-05 15:57:03
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donnamarie :
Will never understand prioritising the new girlfriends kid !
2026-08-03 19:46:19
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Gabriella Katee :
My sons dad dosent even no if he’s dead or alive and he only lives round the corner he’s never ever called me or knocked my door to see if he’s happy and well..He’s chosen every woman in the uk over his own child but karma is good it will catch up with him 🖤
2026-08-04 12:43:16
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tttttt_618 :
My ex told our kids not to contact him again cos they found out he got engaged from the new gf TikTok they are adults but I’m just shocked he did this to them
2026-08-04 17:05:43
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Lou :
Someone send this to my x husband!!!
2026-08-03 18:46:06
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Bekki boo :
My ex husband has done this ! He’s not seen his children in 9 months . Comes on the phone carrying her toddler in front of them on camera
2026-08-04 07:23:00
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susan 🏴 :
yep exaclty and now our daughter won't speak to him because he put himself and his woman first . she always comes first with me ❤️
2026-08-03 19:10:13
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Emma :
My children lost out for many years. This is so relatable!
2026-08-03 18:35:09
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angiejhib :
It’s so sad my ex husband has replaced our daughter with his new wife’s daughter it’s so upsetting and disrespectful to her and too me ,it makes me feel
2026-08-04 11:12:00
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Andrea :
Do you have children?
2026-08-03 18:32:47
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nobody :
🤣🤣🤣 I spend most my time at home or work not had time to properly attempt to go out let alone actually date - been 4 years ✌️- always my priority will be my 👦
2026-08-03 20:08:34
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helsbellz1 🏴🦄 :
I’ve put my kid first never dated again why would I? Not bringing randoms round my kid
2026-08-04 07:39:53
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🎵 💗Melody💗 🎶 :
This was exactly my ex husband. He was with someone else with kids, out clubbing, spending money on her kids , new tattoos and no time or money for his own children.
2026-08-04 10:35:34
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voncaulz3sh :
then there father of the year in their kids eyes, i feel so unappreciated and guilty.
2026-08-04 17:35:09
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Jacqui :
Going through this and his new gf is pregnant and she thinks he’s going to change 😂
2026-08-04 16:08:08
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ju💋❤️ :
some women don't like him even talking to his ex let alone see his kids ..they still have hang ups towards their ex moving on
2026-08-03 21:08:49
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Pauls :
God knows? I was left alone with it- absoloute rubbish. You are so true and you have the best morals 👏 mine are my life!!!
2026-08-03 20:22:24
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Devonish :
Yes I will never understand this or the new lady not asking him to step up for his own children!! Seen this and also my ex telling my little boy he will always be his daddy and there for him then vanishes. Don’t say something you don’t mean, children don’t understand
2026-08-04 14:19:47
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️ ⸸ :
Yeah was together 17 years our eldest is 15 youngest 5 he left last Oct absolutely zero contact since his new gf has 2 kids
2026-08-04 09:46:08
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