I heard this before and I would figure out how much money I had personally added to the joint account. Transfer that amount into my personal account. Then transfer half of the rest into that account as well. Then file for a divorce. I wouldn't go back to work. As the primary care giver and stay at home parent, OP can get child support and alimony. 🤣😂🤣. I wouldn't go back to work until I have to.
2026-08-04 08:03:44
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Éclaircissement :
She has lost wages and pension funds when she stopped working. Add to this the fact that he lied. All the extra physical and emotional labour that are unpaid and he honors this by witholding 1/4 of his earnings, using her money and saying the can’t afford $38 steak?! This is financial abuse. A good divorce lawyer will be more expensive than those steaks he should have gladly bought. She definitely needs to go back to work and secure the bag for herself - NTA
2026-08-03 18:38:16
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pboll2 :
Hmmmmm……what is he up to? Something’s afoot.
2026-08-03 18:38:17
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Jeany🌸 :
Yes daddy must stay home and take care of the baby while mommy works on her savings once she has enough then they’ll revisit the arrangement😏
2026-08-04 04:31:13
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nginapt2 :
Financial infidelity is grounds for divorce
2026-08-04 08:36:49
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alice in wanderland :
That's financial cheating
2026-08-03 19:08:18
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<3 :
He has another family
2026-08-04 01:04:25
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Gsocute :
Divorce. If he’ll lie about this, he’ll lie about anything
2026-08-03 23:41:54
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Gloria crux :
he got another child
2026-08-04 03:03:33
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mariyaellena on ig :
That’s financial infidelity!
2026-08-04 00:00:31
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Anne K :
he can stay at home and look after the baby - he can afford it!
Sorry but if I can't trust you....
2026-08-03 20:39:22
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KhristieLP :
That’s the end of trust in that relationship. She definitely needs to go back to work. Hiding income is a big 🚩. I’d probably file for divorce.
2026-08-03 21:54:55
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MellyMel❌ :
Financial infidelity. But just know that if you do divorce, you’ll be getting 1/2 that $45k. It’s marital property.
2026-08-03 22:46:58
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O'nest :
the husband can equally stay home to care for their child while she works.
2026-08-03 19:38:25
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🇱🇨 Dezo 🇬🇾 :
nope, and take all the money back that she put in that joint account
2026-08-03 18:33:26
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its Simone :
Divorce
2026-08-03 22:46:11
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Mangosalsa123🇧🇸❤️ :
Nothing wrong with wanting your own money. The problem was keeping it a secret.
2026-08-03 23:15:03
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Katie Davis :
Nah that's half her money!
2026-08-03 18:49:35
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🇱🇨 Dezo 🇬🇾 :
why would he be saving behind her back whiles using her money , and what he said about the steak 🙄😤
2026-08-03 18:34:15
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Coco Savage :
Well ... looks like she's going back to work and separating funds.
2026-08-03 21:39:58
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Manceaud 🇨🇮🇨🇮🇨🇮 :
I would file for divorce the next day 🤷🏾♀️
2026-08-03 19:16:28
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Óscar :
Girls, you MUST be economical independent.
2026-08-03 21:50:48
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Suz-anne Chiedza Gondokondo 🥰 :
no. you need security
2026-08-03 19:08:15
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Lin :
She needs to take back the same percentage from the savings account, that he's been saving.
2026-08-03 23:43:12
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