@johndelony: You gave up the right to live your life how you want to when you said, "I do,” because y’all agreed to do life together. When "But what about me?" pops into your head, say, "What about us?" Then spend the rest of your life trying to out-serve each other. Delony #marriage #marriageadvice #marriageproblems

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alaskanlass
eddie :
what a strange thing to be upset about. 50 hours a week is 10 hour days plus it sounds like he gone all weekend with church and the band. why get married if you didn't want to spend time with your partner?
2026-08-03 19:50:23
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ccole41979
Chris Cole :
sounds like they're speaking different love languages. Her's seems to be quality time and his is either acts of service or words of affirmation. sounds like he's running from being home to me. for some reason.
2026-08-06 10:35:03
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haleykaylynnjennings
HK :
And if they have kids guess who’s with them?
2026-08-03 22:14:12
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janenicholson5
Jane Nicholson :
Some men don’t seem to get that women aren’t as bothered about the money and working as much as they’re bothered about not spending time with the person they love and want to be with. He needs to be careful because if she mentally checks out, there may not be any way to come back from that. I hope it’s worth it….
2026-08-06 12:38:09
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tam.tam2140
user7904841050061 :
He’s living like a single person
2026-08-04 02:23:56
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amieross1110
ame :
he's choosing others over her
2026-08-04 02:17:45
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engineer.and.gamer.dad
engineer.and.gamer.dad :
I’m going to bet it isn’t the 50 hrs of work that’s the problem. The band and the extra time at church seems to be a major piece of this but the caller buried the lead on those things to make his argument seem stronger than it actually is.
2026-08-04 16:37:56
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hepalienfan
Hep Alien Fan :
“I want us to be comfortable.” Comfort isn’t just about finances. She’s uncomfortable.
2026-08-03 20:22:52
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happyyoureafool
Happy You’re a Fool :
50 hours a week…. I was expecting him to say like 70
2026-08-03 21:57:05
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setsunalily
Teersa :
Well, good. He has hobbies. That'll keep him occupied after the divorce and fill the time when he comes home to an empty house. He needs his freedom. She should give it to him. Take the pressure off. No more nagging!
2026-08-04 13:45:17
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luvslake0
luvslake0 :
Interesting his wife misses spending time with him, but you don’t hear him saying he misses spending time with his wife.
2026-08-05 17:53:19
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bevy1955
bevy1955 :
The guys at work will be telling him “the divorce came out of nowhere” 🙄
2026-08-04 13:49:20
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gigachad6627
GigaChad :
Stop the church volunteering. Easy hours saved
2026-08-04 23:34:04
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mickmomma66
Obi wan dognobi🐾🐾 :
So what you're saying is you're choosing everything else over your wife? my *Ex* decided that too.
2026-08-03 21:24:33
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st.milla7
St.Milla 🇳🇴 :
What I heard him say; I do not care about her hurt, her tears and her needs.
2026-08-04 09:42:34
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tanjab346
TanjaB :
he doesn't want to be at home
2026-08-04 05:42:51
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whiskeychewandregrets
user3948190797386 :
50 hours a week is not very much at all. but the band and the volunteering need to be cut out spend time with your family more volunteer together. he had responsibilities at home, you have to honor them and put them first
2026-08-04 10:08:37
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pumacat2008
Pumacat2008 :
Notice he says the way HE wants to live life! Marriage is a partnership! Yes he works but church and the band, why be married if you don’t spend time with your wife?!
2026-08-05 13:51:26
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likeaflutterby
hollyspetslife :
Church starts in the home
2026-08-04 02:16:06
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bethc_1
bethc_1 :
Your wife loves you and wants you home with the family? This isn’t bad. Maybe cut down on the volunteering and the xtra, or cut down on expenses so you are spending quality time together
2026-08-03 20:22:19
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bespectacled16
BeSpectacled :
Prioritize and make cuts dude
2026-08-03 21:55:46
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edie.gonzales
edie gonzales :
give up the band
2026-08-03 20:11:56
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williamknight1982
William knight :
you aren't one flesh with your job or your hobbies
2026-08-03 20:36:19
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its_jeromy
Its_jeromy :
He has his own goals. If she can’t handle his ambitions then she might not be the one. ☝️
2026-08-04 16:27:04
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tam.tam2140
user7904841050061 :
He sounds like he doesn’t really like his wife. She’s not a priority at all for him
2026-08-04 02:25:06
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