I thought people could change a little because I can… apparently I’m a rarity… 💀
2026-08-03 23:07:25
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Steph :
SAY IT LOUDER
2026-08-05 05:25:41
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mackenzie :) :
girl u should have made this vid three years ago would’ve saved me some time
2026-08-03 20:50:32
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cerealbowl1234 :
i’ve always thought that the first red flag you see will end up being the core principle behind why you end up breaking up
2026-08-03 23:53:15
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Female boyfriend :
Is this true for moms too or just for boyfriends
2026-08-04 01:51:31
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🪱sally :
Right like think about how difficult it is to meaningfully change something fundamental about yourself, you have to want it SO bad, and often the men with "potential" don't even wanna transform
2026-08-03 23:37:06
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Theodore :
I think bonds and connections are oddly more static and resistant to change than people are. If someone is bad at communicating with someone else sometimes that’s just the chemistry you’re working with, I don’t think it’s an indictment of one of both of those people. Relationships are meaningful only because we can’t be truly close with just anyone.
2026-08-04 05:15:44
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kickpuncher420 :
“With a training plan of your own creation”😂😂😂 I have never been so called out nor deserved it more. You right, girl half my age, you right
2026-08-04 01:13:18
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celr :
i feel like this is just the outlook that is needed to maintain healthy expectations from people. I do think that people can change but if you experience a pattern of behavior from someone, even if they change that experience will prob live in your perception for longer than is healthy for both parties. acceptance is super necessary
2026-08-04 21:42:41
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bussyscrambler9000 :
people can change but on some "a watched pot never boils' type shit you gotta cut em loose for em to grow
2026-08-04 14:42:45
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nerd maxxer :
this isn't related to this video, but i want you to know your chores every day video genuinely changed my life. got on wellbutrin and locked in with chores
2026-08-03 23:11:35
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💖✨Layla✨💖 :
This is 100% true. Every person i broke up with was ultimately for traits i noticed right from the start
2026-08-04 04:46:59
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Kia :
You ain’t lied!
2026-08-04 03:54:12
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md2020_13 :
People don’t change when they’re comfortable
2026-08-03 22:32:51
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ya mama :
dammit ur right
2026-08-03 22:11:49
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kim :
mine sold me a dream, and then gaslitttt me so hard i’ve got whiplash. did not see that coming
2026-08-04 16:07:43
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Meowww :
more ppl need to admit to blatantly ignoring red flags because the relationship is fresh” and they like the person. but the bs behavior won’t all of a sudden disappear just because you all stayed together longer. love doesn’t override a shitty person
2026-08-04 07:19:11
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bibi tsui :
u r so right
2026-08-03 23:43:51
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tsc :
Can i have ur eyebrows
2026-08-04 04:41:40
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Trystan 𖣂 :
so true. her weird behavior that she apologized for and was scared was going to ruin our relationship, was the same behavior that was somehow my fault at the end. maybe I was too patient idk
2026-08-04 18:03:59
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mypeepeestings :
i thought the same but idk, maybe I'm convincing myself😭he knows hes new to this kinda stuff but i genuinely see him doing his best to meet my needs
2026-08-05 02:42:25
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