@drdeborahparenting: When your child is standing on a table banging on it, and you keep saying, "No." "Stop." "Get down." but nothing changes, your child has learned that the first few warnings do not require a response. Here's what to do instead. In a safety moment, do not wait for your voice to get louder. Say it once: "Feet on the floor." If they do not move, walk over and lift them down. Then move them away from the table. One safety instruction, then action. When the response is immediate and predictable, your child stops waiting to find out how many times you will say it. Follow me for more parenting systems that help your child respond to the first instruction. #ParentingTips #ParentingCommunity #Parenting #ParentingOS #ParentCoach #ParentSupport

Elevate Your Hobby :

What about when I have to do it 18 times after the first time

titans_rule80 :

They know cuz the minute i get up they run off😂

Tessa Mcknight :

Ok but why tf that child have a damn screw driver??

Waffles :

So when they are now moved away from the table after the 1 response 1 action and the child goes back to the table and throws a fit then what?

Sagamoon :

I have tried that and my two 20 month olds just go right back to the table and start all over again

Shockj2000 :

Yea the tantrum of taking them off the table

Not true :

POV Dads get down now

Serena :

What if the child is younger than 2? Mine is 15 months and I’m trying to get her to stop standing on the couch. I’ve tried this method but she still keeps doing it and thinks it’s funny

£Cake :

This is so much like dog training 😳

Brian Bohunicky :

The only issues with these videos is I don’t have the patience to listen to the entire video, so I never know what to do. Even after typing this I think the video is only at the halfway mark.

Pogo :

Hey Deborah ! Can you post something about getting your 2 year old sleeping in there own room

Janine :

What do you do when they stop only when you close the distance?

Cora Abbott701 :

are we not going to point out that she is not banging on the table shes standing on a chair with a sharp object stabbing the chair on the top of the table its not about the kid at that point im looking at the bad parenting cause why aren't they worried about the sharp object and how did she get it

UserUnknown :

Glad to see Kamala Harris is doing well on TikTok

Elaine :

What do you do about a 10 year old won't eat healthy food? I think this is a way of control. His parents are recently divorced. This eat ing issue started from when he was younger.

Amerika❤️‍🔥🍒 🖤 :

you have been showing up on my fyp for some time and you have definitely helped with home life I have a three year old that used to be very rowdy.

xan :

⋆౨ৎ𝚊𝚛𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚝⟡˖࣪ :

Then when u turn ur head away, they climbed up.

Hayden Anaya :

how do you instruct autidtic child

Cindybluejean :

OMG THE KID WAS JABBING WITH DOME TOOL, SCARRY!

Drew9925 :

welp time to go out and get a time machine

Stingrae :

What about at 18 Mo old? He has just learned how to climb and doesn’t stop when I tell him to get down. I just repeatedly yank him down from the chairs, but he thinks it’s a game and laughs.

craftyambie :

sometimes toddlers just need to toddler out. 👌

throwingstonz3 :

These parents are taking more time to pull out their phones and record than they are parenting.

Thank you 4 following ✅ :

You need to say like this the first time!!