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Because men don’t like big mouth repeatedly complaining and disrespecting them
2026-08-04 16:28:31
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Michelle Armstrong B :
Wait…he is unloading the dishwasher?
2026-08-04 01:32:19
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KyleD :
For all the husbands out there; it’s not just you. Women, children, and basically everyone else goes through this. My sister, when we were younger was the nicest person in public, but at home she could be so distant and mean. I’ve seen this in women too. Sooo, unless this video is rage baiting men, don’t believe it’s just you.. You’re welcome. It’s a normal human behavior than can be trained.
2026-08-05 16:31:30
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🐝 Be :
Unloading the dishwasher? 🤔
2026-08-04 03:40:37
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Michelle :
You mean like at a restaurant he cleans the table and stacks the dishes for the busboy but walks away from the table at home and does nothing?
2026-08-04 23:58:01
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Danoroo :
Wife is like this. Instant scowl and “I hate you” demeanor. Oh, but sweet to everyone else.
2026-08-04 23:18:49
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The Butterfrog :
just kicked out my husband on 30 years. years of begging him to treat me like a stranger. my life is 110% better🙌 I was not worth the effort...so I decided neither is he🧡
2026-08-04 03:16:22
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caroleboone1982 :
all that is fake
2026-08-04 11:52:05
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BiaHammurabi :
Dont ever call me out like this again
2026-08-05 16:04:49
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Cristina :
If he chooses to be engaging and pleasant with everyone else only to lash out at me, he can go start a relationship with them instead. Everyone copes with their own mental health challenges and personal flaws; it is not anyone else's obligation to manage them!
2026-08-04 05:35:20
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User123456 :
My husband is only nice to me and our children😂
2026-08-04 06:09:08
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T-Rex70 :
This is exactly my husband. I seem to be the one that he always takes out his stress on.
2026-08-05 04:29:53
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SipsCoffeeSlowly :
Absolutely not my husband. My husband and I have been married 30 years. He’s been emotionally available for our daughters and me. I suffered a mental crisis a few years ago and he never wavered. He’s a first responder and treats all people equally. These gender wars gotta stop.
2026-08-05 17:17:07
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Maddie mae :
my husband 💯
2026-08-04 03:38:31
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Sarah :
he doesn't love his wife
2026-08-05 06:35:47
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rose :
yep all the time
2026-08-04 11:41:36
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christinemcdonnel06 :
Omg yes !!!
2026-08-04 23:34:34
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major :
Hey, Butterfrog, about 3 months ago I had it with my so called husband also. Had enough of him being bossy, raising his voice and acting like I’m his mom instead of wife
2026-08-04 23:27:19
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Tacobout me :
Or how about the waiter/waitress isn’t consistently an asshole to me?
2026-08-05 12:20:32
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Dani :
No. I'm not with a narcissist.
2026-08-05 17:26:17
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user7521477562233 :
yes helps other people I am struggling no help he gets nasty when asked to help breaks things so I don't ask again
2026-08-04 11:42:37
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Spirit Chg25(John) :
Man this guy hurts me every day. I don’t mean too . Man this hurts .
2026-08-04 09:04:44
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D pena :
My husband in nutshell !!
2026-08-05 00:29:13
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theloop :
This is what I Iive with - we’ve not been married long. 2nd marriage. I will watch this over and over. I am in shock. This is my husband!!! What is this???
2026-08-04 04:05:26
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MamaB :
And I literally will say to him you should not be treating me any worse than you treat somebody at work and this makes him entirely upset. He says those are two different things he is also Ted told me that I can’t compare work home because home is where you get to relax and drop the mask so basically he’s saying his mask keeps away a real big jerk.
2026-08-04 15:05:38
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