@mindful.by.b: the two things my therapist told me when I was feeling guilty prior to ending my relationship. if you care / love them as a person, the nicest thing you can do is be CLEAR #longtermrelationship #relationships #breakups #endingrelationships
What do I do with the fear of seeing him destroyed?? That and the guilt has been stopping me from ending things, I feel so scared to see him that hurt
2026-08-04 06:53:35
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Mhm Bos :
the timing of this is scary 😁
2026-08-05 18:37:28
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bree 🍒 :
wow the universe be sending me some STRONG signs today
2026-08-08 19:43:45
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The Way Of James :
When my fiancee/gf of 5 years broke down crying that she didn't know who she was anymore and didn't know what kind of future she wanted and that we needed to break up even though she didn't really want to, I told her that must have been the hardest thing in the world to say when nothing was really "wrong" between us, and that she must have been wanting to say that for a long time. I told her how proud of her I was for being brave enough to say it. That just made her cry even harder, and I'm afraid it made her feel even more guilty that I wasn't angry. I think we both would have been better off having some huge fight.
2026-08-05 16:52:40
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Mariah 🐾 :
What if you’re feeling wanting to stay and wanting to go? Some day I want to stay and some days I want to go. I truly do not understand my feelings.
2026-08-15 15:38:37
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DenimJeans :
I wish I'd heard this and taken it to heart years ago. I essentially people-pleased into a years-long relationship neither of us wanted to continue, and hurt her and myself more than if either of us called it off when we first thought to.
2026-08-24 20:29:52
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Siena Elisabeth :
ended my 4 year relationship last night. thank you for this
2026-08-04 18:43:54
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gooblover :
i feel bad because i love him and i see so much potential but nothing changes! i’m trying to make myself leave this but it’s hard
2026-08-07 14:49:30
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Jess C :
I’m ending a 15 year relationship 🫣 I’m so scared I could puke
2026-08-06 17:39:16
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scopersx :
Haven’t seen a single comment from a man
2026-08-05 13:33:59
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I_Love_Dinosaurs :
I do something wrong, she gets mad I apologize
she does something wrong, I get mad, she gets mad, I apologize
it's better to just give up.
2026-08-04 11:17:57
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Dr Chronic Threads 🇬🇧🇪🇺 :
ended my 33 year one yesterday. swinging between grief and relief
2026-08-05 15:33:57
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Ciscooooo :
7 years in and my stomach is in knots trying to figure out how to broach the topic. Have lived together for about 4 years now, have ton of shared belongings, it seems impossible to do it now. It stresses me out so much day in and day out.
2026-08-11 23:32:45
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bri_bri :
Need to hear this but had to turn the volume down bc .. the room has ears
2026-08-07 03:51:58
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Amber 🇪🇨 :
Timing is actually scary …
2026-08-19 21:10:29
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John Wish365 :
I think this is just gaslighting
2026-08-05 18:30:51
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realtioning :
Narcissism is really destroying everyone. This “ i’m just choosing myself,” trend is the worst thing I’ve ever heard. Not a single successful relationship contains “ I’m not rejecting you. I’m just choosing myself.” relationships are sacrifice. Every pair of people you’ve ever seen grow old together didn’t just choose themselves. They chose their relationship and they chose their partner.
2026-08-08 03:37:43
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DAI🍒 :
are we all going through it right now? because i needed to see this
2026-08-05 23:58:42
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Nate :
Can’t repost just know I was here
2026-08-04 22:20:26
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Annie ᵕ̈ :
Feels so complicated when you’re married but know you want to leave
2026-08-04 08:55:22
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Sammy :
So my fiancée of 8 yrs, did this, you been talking to her ass?
2026-08-05 23:11:10
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Nonya :
Seven years is crazy. I’m about to end mine after 2.5 years if he doesn’t propose next year.
2026-08-05 20:58:54
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lindsmarhar :
Oh god I had to pause it because my heart started beating fast 😭 I’ve been stuck in limbo because I know how much sadness it will cause the other person, I’m sick to think of it
2026-08-11 00:34:19
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Tik Toker :
I want to really want to. I’ve nowhere to go 😭
2026-08-06 18:22:19
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