Donna Clements
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Tuesday 04 August 2026 01:48:59 GMT
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Heather Lackey Murphy :
I saw a quote the other day that really hit home - "Just because you feel like you could be doing more, doesn't mean you're not already doing enough."
2026-08-04 02:48:50
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Lolita 🩷 :
Pat would be absolutely correct & I would agree with him! Everyone’s situation is different. At some point maybe your daddy will agree to join her at the care home.
2026-08-04 02:04:44
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IAM :
Although it’s hard & you may never feel “great” about it, but even though you made this tough choice you still put a lot of time in. This choice just allows you to be a daughter & a grandmother 🫶🏾
2026-08-04 02:08:08
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Torchy Swinson :
Our children made the decision to move my husband to memory care & me to assisted living…just down the hall, so I could visit him all day, sleep at night. I’d never have but it was the best thing.
2026-08-04 02:14:55
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Lisa McCullough :
Do not feel guilty, there comes a time when you can no longer do it in the home. She's is where she needs to be. she is being taken care of.
2026-08-04 04:51:05
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Jonipilkington :
I know your pain Donna. Your story aligns with mine so much. I lost my husband suddenly. My mother had the same thing and she lived with me for about two years until we couldn’t manage her care. It was one of the most painful decisions. It was for the best but this cycle of life is so hard.
2026-08-05 13:51:34
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KL7 :
His closet still smells 100% like him and my three 20+ kids are in there constantly - a year and a half later… you are an amazing family member all the way around!!!
2026-08-05 05:44:42
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Vegan Warrioress :
Sometimes, the best most loving decision is to allow loved ones to receive the care she needs, and that is exactly what you have done.
2026-08-28 17:32:22
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Abbottelementary :
I appreciate your honesty, however, please don’t feel guilty. You give your mom and dad your best.
2026-08-04 02:09:34
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allisonrutan :
Love you Donna! It’s hard!
2026-09-04 04:56:17
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ericaburg3 :
You are such a good daughter, Ms. Donna. All you can do is what you can do. Please don’t feel guilty. You have to live your life too.
2026-08-06 06:09:45
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Anna Jarrett :
Girl dinner ❤️
2026-08-04 01:53:04
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jess♡ :
I'm about to get out of bed and make some cheese toast because that sounds so good! thank you for sharing your life with us 🩷
2026-08-05 01:49:20
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prd307 :
Sometimes the right choice is the hardest !
2026-08-04 02:46:53
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✨Tabby✨🫧🍸🌷💋🏝️ :
Donna, you don’t need to feel guilty. My mom was a RN for over 40 years and when she got sick I took care of her and it’s very taxing and she felt like she was a burden. It got to the point that I couldn’t do it anymore. You’re doing the right thing for you and your family.💕💕💕🥰🥰🥰
2026-08-08 23:49:39
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363Lor :
Absolutely agree with what Pat would say. Most importantly is her safety. If they lived with you and you weren't home something could happen.
2026-08-15 17:15:27
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Paula Lucas :
You’re doing the absolute best. Jesus has guided your steps and direction.
2026-08-05 02:41:41
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Jackie👏🏻 :
I love cheese toast.💕
2026-08-07 02:23:22
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Apple User234487651 :
Finding good care for her was the responsible thing to do
2026-08-04 23:27:24
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MURedhawk :
I thank God that I didn’t have to make those decisions with my parents but I remember my grandparents. It is the best decision sometimes
2026-08-20 14:11:23
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Lakyn Robinson850 :
you are doing your best!! and you are doing so good!!
2026-08-15 16:28:22
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Mari 🌼 :
Do your siblings help you with them? I worry about you because you are doing so much.
2026-08-04 02:28:56
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rpo89 :
Your feelings are SO normal. We all feel we could do more, we just took care of my mother-in-law for two weeks of hospice before she passed. It was emotionally challenging. All those feelings you’re experiencing we all feel. Be sure to give yourself grace and patience Miss Donna. ❤️
2026-08-13 19:33:23
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Tasha :
You shouldn’t feel guilty. It’s a huge undertaking and it’s very hard to have to take care of anyone, let alone a loved one, like your momma. You do have a life. And your mom wouldn’t want that. She would want you living your life not around the clock for her. It’s actually probably better for her being there, because you would be physically exhausted 😴 and unable to take her anywhere or anything. It’s also probably unreasonable and unrealistic for you to care for her all the time you would have to have time. Unfortunately sometimes things get to a point where you have no choice but to
2026-08-13 04:25:26
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