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Imhana :
maybe love isn't for avoindant people, and I'm one of them
2026-08-20 21:40:07
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☆ :
i love being single for this main reason
2026-08-19 18:43:18
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trishinayah :
The ocean never apologizes for its depth
2026-08-19 14:35:17
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MayMay :
it's hard when you grew up learning not to express things you want, like, or feel. I want to say something but I don't know how, because words flood my brain and my throat closes around the sentences that I want to say to you. how do I explain how I feel, when I can't even say it out loud to myself?
2026-08-18 15:40:43
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kim.it.is :
I'm with the guy, he's not wrong some things should be told directly
2026-08-19 14:12:59
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hamlet :
I've been on the receiving side of this. tbh, mahirap. kasi nag-eexert ako ng effort and it really feels one-sided. they're scared, oo gets ko yun pero can we like give it a shot? kasi sinasabi nila na they really like me tapos biglang aalis. nakakadrain, nakakababa ng self worth tbh. kaya sa relationship it takes two to tango. if one person doesn't want to put an effort, maybe it's time to let go na and find someone that can match you.
2026-08-18 15:57:04
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yani :
dating an avoidant is not for the weak. If u can't handle them, don't u even dare na guluhin buhay nila in the first place :::)
2026-08-18 13:32:05
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𝙲𝚑𝚊𝚗_𝙲𝙱𝟿𝟽 :
this is why I chose to stay single, no one can understand me deeper than I do
2026-08-19 11:04:48
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elora.bbitzuu 𖦹 ׂ 𓈒🐇 ೀ :
im sorry if i tend to push people away once they get to know me. it’s not because i don’t value people. i js don’t want you to drown in the depths of the problems im carrying. you may not understand the storms i keep within me, and perhaps, maybe i am the problem. im sorry if pushing you away is the only way i know to keep you from being caught in the waves of my own chaos. sorry cuz i‘d rather let the distance hurt than watch my storms pull you under with me. im sorry for being avoidant ☹️
2026-08-18 11:43:41
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chi :
ayun nabasa ko sarili ko sa chat nya
2026-08-18 13:11:18
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saewhat? :
I'm like that. That's why I never 'take the risk' kasi ik mahirap akong maintindihan, but know that when I said I like someone, I really do. It's just that my heart and mind isn't ready to let you in my life. Confession isn't the risk, letting someone in my life is. Guess it'll always be a one-sided affection for me (hope I'll heal though)
2026-08-18 15:33:37
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tifa ʚଓ :
kanya kanya na
2026-08-18 10:55:21
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🪡tar :
a piece of advice, being complicated is not the reason why people tend to stay away from you, its the person who will always try to understand you that will stay until the very end.
2026-08-04 10:06:19
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Eisz :
sa nakikita ko lang ah, di ko po sure kung totoo o hindi. you intend to push away maybe because you didn't trust the person at all, kahit nakikita mo naman yung action niya, how they treat you, how they communicate but still you push them away, and that's the problem. Why? because you let your mind controls you. ano ibig kong sabihin, pag sinabi ng utak mo na "iiwan ka din naman niyan" or "sa una lang yan", mas susundin mo pa rin yang mga yan kaysa sa nararamdaman mo na pag mamahal sa isang tao. May oras para gamitin yung utak at puso, mas ok nga kung balance eh. You can test naman if they true and genuine without having to push them away. yan yung problem sayo. you want someone who is understanding pero pag andyan na tinutulak mo kasi mas pinaniniwalaan mo yung nasa utak mo, I guess dapat balance lang. pero di ko din naman masisisi kung ganyan ka kasi maybe rooted din yan sa past trauma and bad experiences mo sa relationship kaya mo tinutulak ang mga tao which another problem. Siguro, wag ka muna pumasok sa relationship or wag ka muna mag entertain ng tao hanggang sa mag heal ka ng fully, kasi di mo namamalayan yung tinulak mo na pala yun na pala binigay sayo ng Diyos. Yun na pala yung taong kung saan para sayo, itatrato ka ng tama, mamahalin ka ng tama. Di ka po ang problema, ok? ang problema lang yung mga unhealed and wounds pa na kailangan mo muna pagalingin.
2026-08-20 00:19:38
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a_yana.sc :
Hindi ba pwedeng we tend to push other people away kasi ayaw naming lumubog sila na kasama kami? na ayaw namin na pati sila malunod sa lalim namin? Hindi ba pwedeng sa sobrang care and pagmamahal namin ayaw namin silang madamay? 1. Happy 2. Sad 3. Angry 4. Flirty
2026-08-19 03:12:35
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Astoriaa ♡ :
Kaya next time, yung trauma nyo wag nyo ipasa sa mga genuine na tawo na gusto kayo tapos kayo pa masasaktan? Mahalin nyo muna sarili nyo bago nyo mahalin ibang tao kasi nakaka drain lang promise. Hindi pwede kayo lang palagi.
2026-08-18 22:09:25
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basta akomas pipiliin ko mag suffer mag isa kesa magkaroon ng someone when in the end I know na mapapagod lang lubayan din ako alam ko sa sarili kong I'm still not okay kaya I'm not entering anything mas okay ng mag suffer mag isa
2026-08-04 10:51:48
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💞zhanegaspar l💕 :
me If I where the one replying: "It’s none of your business because that’s just how I am, and if you don’t understand that, then just leave" duhh🙄
2026-08-18 14:42:48
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niceyyy_5 :
I understand you because I'm like that safety is our priority that's why our heart is guarded maybe because we grew up saving and protecting ourselves alone. We crave love, comfort and safety but we're not ready to give up ourselves cause if we let them at what cost? ourselves eh in the first first that's all we have but it's unfair also na we are aware of our situation but we keep entertaining someone just because we crave love but along the way we can dump them anytime. Let's heal first so that we don't have to bleed to the person who only want is to love us.
2026-08-18 17:03:02
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