@opallauryn: And if they make you feel like it’s too much- RUN! #relationships #dating #redflags #breakup #Love

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genderlesschill
genderless chill :
I once wrote a love not by stealing lines from love songs. no ai required
2026-08-05 01:20:09
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mandaheb
Always Amanda :
Well dang it 🫪
2026-08-05 01:01:03
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frutiger_editor
frutiger_editor :
Im bored let’s all go break up with your boyfriends
2026-08-04 16:25:58
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vmspa2693
vmspa2693 :
Not to mention the nice things they do end up doing should not be weaponized against you.
2026-08-04 21:21:53
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babyde_r
Babyde_r :
Can we also add that those nice things should be genuine, not to get something they want or something they appreciate
2026-08-04 12:44:00
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repti__world
Brooke Cyr :
You also shouldn’t have to ask your partner to smile for a picture. Genuinely makes me so sad seeing women so happy in a picture and their bf is just 😐 anywho this is my man…he didnt know it was national gf day until the day after and he felt so bad he’s paying for me to get a tattoo ive been wanting tomorrow!
2026-08-04 16:39:25
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kit.kat7630
Kit Kat🥰 :
I asked my partner what he thought romance was and he said “intimacy that exceeds friends and family”🫩
2026-08-04 16:01:46
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polychrome2010
Carlin💛♾️🦋 :
I'm not sure if it's the lighting or if it's the way it's styled but your hair looks very nice
2026-08-04 21:10:46
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lilbit7272
Lil'bit🩵🤍 :
But he's perfect in every other way, I just think he's autistic and has absolutely no clue how to tell me I'm pretty
2026-08-04 23:46:58
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sammyyydixonnnn
Samantha Dixon :
really 😭😭
2026-08-04 21:30:47
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emmamae1404
emmamaec :
This is exactly the problem I had in my last relationship. I think he loved me and was attached to me, but I always questioned if he actually liked me. Sounds crazy, but don’t you want to do these things for your partner if you actually like them?!
2026-08-04 21:08:36
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xaniski
Grace Schefer :
I think requesting a certain thing is reasonable and part of communication. But begging people to show up for you or engage with you is not the vibe. the people you share your life with should want to be part of your life
2026-08-04 12:48:45
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whiteowlmediaco
WhiteOwlMediaCo :
Yes you should
2026-08-04 20:59:28
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trekkieerin
Trekkieerin :
I had to BEG my ex bf to get me a specific gift for my birthday.... two years together and that was the first time he got me a gift. All I wanted was a $30 candle warmer and he didn't even get the one I really wanted
2026-08-04 14:18:06
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lila.lynn30
lila.lynn30 :
Okay at least hold my hand first😭
2026-08-04 22:46:27
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ellie_campos8
Ellie :
I said that daily
2026-08-04 22:00:23
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yuansmoon
Reviewer B :
“Write you letters”?? You’re such a lover girl. More seriously, I generally agree with you, but most people in their 20s are still learning how to be a good partner while being a partner. It’s important that we take a moment to teach our partners. Of course, we all should have limits on what we tolerate.
2026-08-04 18:22:23
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lolitapopsickle
Kal 🇵🇸🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 :
Mmmmhmmmm
2026-08-04 23:26:11
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genderlesschill
genderless chill :
I think asking once is fine but after that they're not paying attention
2026-08-05 01:18:15
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jessicaarons._
Jess💕 :
exactly that is literally the bare minimum 😁
2026-08-04 17:38:58
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kierstenstacks
Kiersten :
i asked to go on dates and he said he didn’t want it to feel forced
2026-08-04 21:18:00
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mundane_housewife
TR :
Married 22 years. I’ve asked and asked and basically dry begged for compliments and dates and to take pictures of me and for him to actually desire me. It’s been 2 years since he’s even touched me. I’ve given up. Basically in a silent divorce. I’ll never ask it ever again.
2026-08-04 20:47:19
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meekthetaurus
Kesielyn :
I also begged to be complimented, hair done, makeup done and even frickin lingerie on…. Nothing but a dry bland ass “you look great” 😐 also 4yrs of asking for flowers. I know I should leave him I’m just scared to be a single mom but I should also do it for my kid too
2026-08-04 22:00:28
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ioniteria
ioniteria :
yes yes and yes. A little lesson to the youngsters. if they love you they'll work on showing that they love you, that they care for you, that (to not confuse with obsession or possessions) they want to care, lift you up at every opportunity. For you to be someone that they deeply care about, that they value your safety, love, health, time, energy to the max. Same works from your end.
2026-08-04 13:02:03
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chogiwa6192
chogiwa6192 :
my (ex) boyfriend wrote me a cute little note full of cheese puns on a pizza box. im lactose intolerant.
2026-08-04 13:26:20
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