@maria.aure1: took me almost two years to figure these out and most of it i learned the hard way • checking his phone won't give you peace • say the fear out loud instead of testing for it • let him earn it in small proofs not big speeches • take the spiral somewhere that isn't him • know when it's healing and when it's just staying no.4 was the one that took me the longest which one are you sitting in rn #relatable #relationshiptips #trustissues #healing #couples