@postusa: When I first realized we didn’t have the cards when we moved, I asked if I could forward them to her. Not for seeing an issue, I put her address as a forwarding address. When she said no, I didn’t proceed. Then, with the visit, I didn’t intend to send a card without asking. It sent one in my name and I thought I cancelled it until I got a very unpleasant message about crossing boundaries. After, I removed their forwarding address from the two accounts, not realizing it was still on the first account. When I removed the address, it sent them a confirmation letter of the removal. Then, I was accused of trying to take advantage of their finances or involve them in our debt. I was wrong for sending, yes. I accepted this and apologized - thus the second letter of removal confirmation. They will see each other before first, when he travels further to other family, he can’t book hotels or cards in person without. Alternatively, we pay 7% in conversion and transaction fees with out EU debit card. It’s our problem, no one else’s and I get that. I have too high of expectations in receiving help when requested. The reaction to forwarding a letter, it just blows my mind.

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Tuesday 04 August 2026 13:28:01 GMT