I understand at such a visceral level this conversation. I remember how my spicy-mom was like at this stage. I desperately want to save you from the aggravation- it’s not worth it. Don’t argue, just do what you have to do, and lie to her. It took me way too long to learn that lesson.
2026-08-05 00:28:28
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parkit :
Just throw it out when she is napping. My mother didn't even have dementia and she wouldn't let anyone clean out the twenty year old ice block of food in her freezer. She wasn't even strong enough to open the door. So every garbage day when I was there, a bag's worth got cleaned out. Just do a work around.
2026-08-07 21:47:06
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Nikki Luftner Nelson :
That’s a situation where I tell my mom “can I take this home? We are short on food”
2026-09-08 15:21:15
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Life With Kristie :
My mom doesn’t have Alzheimer’s. She’s a hoarder and this conversation is so familiar 😭
2026-08-04 17:55:14
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Elevated :
So my mom being immobile is a good thing 😂😂
2026-08-05 12:52:29
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2nd_of_december :
why do they do this?
2026-08-04 19:18:15
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Lilly P :
I threw out 6 bags of rotting food 2 days ago. Filled a whole tipper can. Sometimes I have to put ithe trash in my car and bring it to my house to throw out because as soon as I leave she will dig through her trash and pull it out 🤦🏼♀️
2026-08-04 20:06:04
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Momo :
I feel like this is just her trying to maintain some control.. it was very hard for my grandma
2026-09-05 23:42:50
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Becca Bee :
I went through my mum’s cupboards this week and filled 5 bin bags with out of date food, flour, etc she was mad at me for not asking her… I’d asked her multiple times 🤣
2026-08-05 20:12:05
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ajoysandwich :
If you ever have small moments she is not around you while you are there, throw it out without her seeing you. One thing, one moment at a time. I know for a while that I thought my mom was gonna notice, but she never noticed, and it was much easier than battling her. You will never win an argument with her.
2026-08-09 17:31:35
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observer943 :
I can relate to this. My mom had 6 month old yogurt that she was refusing to part with 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
2026-08-04 18:48:40
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miller38901 :
OMG. The random stuff in the freezer. Ruined fresh salads just randomly frozen. Not covered, just set in there the way I prepared it the night before. I summon my teenage self while I sneak stuff out hidden under my shirt to not have this conversation. 😳😳😳
2026-08-04 17:18:23
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mykidsmom456 :
My brother and I have to tag team this caregiver task because she has lost the ability manage her fridge. One of us gets mom out of the house, and the other one empties the fridge.
2026-08-04 20:02:40
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Dr.IvyCares :
It’s frozen rotten bananas for us! 🤦🏾♀️
2026-08-05 04:01:23
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Dre :
After a 2 wk hospital/rehab stay I went to clean out fridge cause obviously, I got the “that’s my food and your not gonna touch it”, so difficult!
2026-08-04 19:01:29
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Janell | Caregiver Corner :
Struggle is real some days. What about the tissues they like to reuse? lol
2026-08-04 22:55:40
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ChockyKoala :
deafening applause!!!!
2026-08-04 22:36:32
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LovelyLadyLocs❌ :
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
2026-08-04 19:50:43
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raachie_raach :
I just do it.
there's no conversation
2026-09-12 05:10:01
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Beth Anne :
And here we are trying to stop my mom from throwing away all her clothes….😂
2026-08-04 21:38:19
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HeiferPlease239 :
A family member had a box of sweet potatoes, and we threw them out because they were rotting. They managed to get out of the house and drag the box of rotten sweet potatoes back from the road and hid them under their bed. 🤦🏽♀️
2026-08-04 17:11:44
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alexandravera607 :
You think she’s digging it out right after you leave?? My dad is the worse. He sleeps late thank goodness and I’m up super early so I throw everything out so he can’t see ughhh
2026-08-04 17:12:44
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ceecee_summers :
She’s got a good point😂
2026-09-09 14:29:30
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LocalHufflepuff93 :
this is just my non alzheimers boomer parents 😅
2026-08-04 23:20:55
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binzany :
I just put it in my pocket and take it home to my garbage and always take the garbage with me when I leave or they will go through it.
2026-08-29 17:39:34
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