MomMom Maria
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Sarah Macfarlane :
It is so exhausting when they do the guilt tripping and gaslighting of your boundaries - making you out to be the villain to everyone.
2026-08-04 21:57:26
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L :
I said “I’m sorry you feel that way but your emotions and emotional reaction is not on me or my job to process” she hasn’t spoken to me in months now. 🤷🏻♀️
2026-08-04 18:03:09
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youngers_wa :
Anybody else grew up where if the parents were “upset” that meant you were in the wrong? 🙋 boy that took awhile to sort out
2026-08-04 18:14:13
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Katy - sahm 🐮💦📚 :
This has helped me feel so much better about the boundaries I have set. Thank you
2026-09-02 02:15:25
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katieawoo :
But how do I know if my boundaries are too much/ I’m asking too much/ my boundaries are mean? 😬
2026-08-30 13:19:55
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Deanna Bishop :
My mom got caught in real time lying to me about still having photos of my son on social media after agreeing to remove months ago and me first asking almost a year ago. She straight lied to me - there are none, then oh maybe a couple, oh 5 or 6 I deleted, and meanwhile I’m looking at like 20
2026-08-05 04:00:34
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Rachel :
My MIL keeps asking when I’m going to have another child - it drives me up a wall. I asked my husband to talk to her now she’s mad at me saying “every topic is off limits” and is visibly mad. Family planning is between me and my husband Susan!!!! Grow up. I was sick a week ago and she told me to take a test, I almost lost it on her
2026-08-07 19:46:07
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𝒯 :
Like, I’m not here to gentle parent you. I’m here to parent my child.
2026-08-04 20:13:34
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Abby | CLE + Travel :
She gaslights so much and makes us feel like we’re the ones who are wrong for creating boundaries
2026-08-04 19:25:55
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Blankstare02 :
It means the boundary was needed.
2026-09-01 05:54:59
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jess.leath :
Your videos are so therapeutic. They help so much 🫶
2026-08-04 21:18:11
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Stephanie Falzon :
Say it louder for the people in the back 👏👏👏
2026-08-09 23:53:22
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carademers :
Thank you for validating this 💜 been trying to work through this for most of my adult life after being “conditioned” to take on my parents emotional wellbeing. Now finding they’re using my newborn already to try and say I’m the bad guy whenever I set a boundary (like asking for them to get TDap for my daughter). It’s exhausting! 😭
2026-08-06 02:40:59
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Jess Roedema :
My MIL told my husband to leave me 9 hours after I had our baby. Due to basic boundaries regarding baby’s safety and my sanity.
2026-08-22 13:37:59
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marleenacoldsmith :
my counselor has really had to work with me whenever to say “is it okay that they’re upset? is that your job to keep them happy?”
2026-08-04 23:46:39
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dahliagrl :
You don't even need to tell anyone your boundaries. When they disrespect you, get up and leave. They may figure out the pattern, but you aren't asking permission.
2026-08-04 20:08:12
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kate_langston :
Thank you for this. The reaction makes me second guess myself and feel like I’m crazy asking for something completely unreasonable. We just don’t want people with HSV kissing our baby
2026-08-12 16:30:11
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Kaelaelizabeth23 :
This!! They don’t have to like my boundaries but they’re gonna respect them or they won’t be around 🥰
2026-08-04 18:15:18
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DeborahSpeaks :
I’d love to share my story with you with my mother in law & husband to help protect other people ❤️🙏
2026-08-04 21:53:39
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A_McMath :
Girl my future MIL really REALLY wants to go wedding dress shopping, has point blank said when are we going many times. I don’t want her to come I want it to be a special moment with my family but I know she’s going to go nuclear over it
2026-08-05 19:06:16
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Kelly :
My FIL has sent us messages threatening us that our boundaries are “putting MIL in an early grave” as if we’re responsible for her mental issues. It’s disturbing.
2026-08-05 19:11:43
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bark2023 :
I’ve gotta remind myself of this everytime I’m hesitant about a response
2026-08-07 17:32:03
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Ness :
I got a “but my friends daughter had a baby and she got to hold them the day they got home from the hospital” okay, well we aren’t doing that.
2026-09-04 03:54:41
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Hardy :
Hi I sent you a dm message needing help with a situation
2026-09-01 14:12:16
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sableyesghost :
I had to remind myself of this when someone wanted me to reconnect with both my mom, my MIL. each lost access to me at different times but for the same reason.
2026-08-04 20:31:35
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