@guidedbygabby: Replying to @Lajolla i’d also end with offering a hug, because sometimes the nervous system needs that pressure to feel relief. This is not encouraging the behavior, it’s showing that, even though you made this mistake, and I was firm in letting you know that I will not accept it, I still love you and the next time it happens, we’ll go through the same process until it doesn’t. ##authoritativeparenting##childrenoftiktok##parentinghacks##parentinglife
The search being “spoiled kids get humbled” is so sad.
2026-08-06 02:53:51
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Kai :
THIS is gentle parenting by the way. "Gentle" is not permissive.
2026-08-04 22:25:51
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Logan/Vix :
this is gentle parenting. gentle parenting is just not beating ur kids 😭
2026-08-05 03:29:21
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Alyssa Maye 🎶🎼 :
“You don’t get to hurt other people’s body’s just because you’re angry” and this is perfect parenting.
2026-08-05 04:46:44
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Little Mystery Toy Queen :
My cousin looked at her son during a family gathering and said “you do not get to hit me because I don’t get to hit you. Does that seem fair?” and it was the best thing I’ve ever witnessed! There was no yelling, crying or screaming involved.
2026-08-05 00:14:37
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Skaterboi :
I like the way she says “ I will not let u hit me bc ur angry “ which made me think that in another case if someone was trying to hurt her child that gives them a reason to defend themselves whether with words or hitting
2026-08-05 14:17:37
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Sarah K. :
That made ME feel grounded.
2026-08-04 20:41:35
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💕Aj's Girl💕 :
my go to is no sir or no ma'am ive noticed the associate those terms with respected adults and I feel like they feel like im taking their feelings more seriously it has always worked so quickly for me (I have zero science for this but its just been my experience)
2026-08-04 23:23:47
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moomi_40 :
See gentle parenting your allowed to set boundaries everyone needs discipline.
2026-08-06 21:54:58
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𐔌 🍃‧🪲⋅🌀ᐯ乇几ㄩ丂 🌀 ‧🪲⋅🌲 :
watching this now 19 years old moved out made me so sure you were going to hit the child and i was so happy and, whats’s the word like it made me feel so regulated too actually😭 so unexpected. i always got taught to hit, i hit people and myself. it’s so nice to see firm but gentle parenting
2026-08-04 22:18:20
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Soph :
proof that you can be firm without violence
2026-08-05 11:19:22
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notgretaaa :
unrelated, fit is fire
2026-08-06 19:27:03
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Liv💜🧿🌙⭐️💙💛 :
this is good parenting right here
2026-08-06 07:46:29
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lilybeovsfb :
what do you do about them hitting themselves/self injury?
2026-08-04 23:17:51
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⋆。˚꒰ঌ angel ໒꒱˚。⋆ :
For me, I do martial arts and my little cousins do too never they try to do stuff like that. I make them either hold push-up position or do push-ups. I don’t yell at them. I give them a firm talk.
2026-08-05 03:34:47
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Claire S :
What you said about what they can do with their anger reminds me of the Mr. Rodgers song what can you do with the mad.
2026-08-05 15:33:42
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DeeAnnDisney 🇦🇺 :
This was perfect! Clear expectations of what behaviour will be accepted.
2026-08-05 06:43:08
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Ximena Gomez 💗✌🏽💅🏽🇸🇻✨ :
I love how your not being abusive, not being too careless but just right!
2026-08-05 02:37:40
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Sam 🩵 :
I work with kids on the spectrum and when I had a stern voice telling them to stop pinching me i was told i was being rude and i have to just let them pinch. keep in mind the pinches leave bruises 😭
2026-08-05 02:14:22
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Minty :
gentle means not hitting or screaming at children not allowing them to do shit
2026-08-05 01:29:30
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Lajolla :
okay thank you I get a lot of frustration because I'm starting out being a mother I have a 1 yr old so sometimes it can be really frustrating I try not to hit her because I know how it feels to be beat/a whooping Everytime I did something wrong
2026-08-04 20:11:59
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Natalieisfaithful :
I have autism and bpd sometimes I can’t control it I will not be judged for something I can’t control
2026-08-05 01:17:04
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bluey_tiktock :
If parents these days actually did this to their kids, their kids would grow up actually learning how to keep hands to their selfs. I get that they’re just kids but sometimes all you need to is just tell them no and if they start trying to hit you, just give them space to calm down . But parents these days just give their kids iPads and phones instead of being outside being a kid yk
2026-08-04 22:57:11
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